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Culture War Roundup for the week of April 27, 2026

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Why do a lot of women not like acknowledging the practical aspects of dating? By this I mean that women appear to be put off by me simply discussing:

  1. The importance of looks (not just physical but also fashion) and how one might improve that (whether man or woman)
  2. The usefulness of economic concepts such as SMV and the dating market
  3. The biological clock for having kids (more apparent for women, but men also have degrading sperm quality with age)

Of course I'm not discussing these topic with women I'm trying to actually date, I'm not that autistic. But if you're trying to actually find a partner to settle down and have kids with, how do you not take all of these into account? Not only does it reek of impracticality, but on an even deeper level, it appears that any attempt to practically model the dating world at all produces a negative female reaction.

(Maybe it's because some of these women don't ever intend on having kids and therefore don't ever have to be realistic about dating.)

Women don't like it because they don't want a transactional relationship.

So this right here feels very illuminating. I said one thing and you appear to have heard something completely different. Why is that? Perhaps the answer lies somewhere here.

You did say that, in a population statistics kind of way.

If I was a woman, I would need some serious bonafides from a dude who knew what "SMV" stood for before I would grace him with a conversation. Are you writing a book? Are you a sociologist? Show me your substack and reddit accounts this instant, citizen.

It's like my enormous knowledge of various Wehrmacht bits of gear and my PZ-4-D/Stug 3/Tiger models: They encourage some questions, and it's fair to ask them; I need to show you my Sherman and T-34-85 and my precious idiot son, the KV-2 before you can exit the wehraboo danger zone.

the KV-2

You interest me strangely, tell me more about the idiot child!

Imagine a heavy tank chassis, with armor blessed by the hand of Stalin himself, so strong you needed to put the open end any self propelled direct fire gun the Nazi's had (at the time, don't bring up the panther or the later stugs) right up against it if you wanted to MAYBE get through. It is fast enough on the advance, given its weight. It has excellent clearance and doesn't sink in any mud because it's so chonky.

On top of this Chassis, put a fat boy humorously square turret, and inside this turret place a 152mm gun. Anything it hits even kinda close to is immediately rendered into its constituent molecules.

Unfortunately, this bitch is so fat that the best its engine can manage is a brisk jog, it's various sprockets exist in a state of infinite agony, screaming as the shortest but widest conscript they could jam through the hatches shifts it by putting both feet on the lever and leg pressing it into gear, all while being visible from the next country over on account of being as big as a house.

Even with all that, it's so tough that on at least one occasion it gets its tracks blown off and just sits there, getting shot at for a couple days until it finally runs out of ammunition.

It's the dumbest tank that ever actually put in good work in a real war, and lives on in fond memory.

You left out the part where they designed it with this massive steel-chunk of a turret containing a giant gun, and then neglected to procure an electric motor for rotating said turret. Some poor communist conscript fuck has to winch the thing around with a hand crank! And the turret's size and armament makes its balance worse, so if the tank is on a slope that hand crank is not only rotating the turret, but now lifting a giant off-center load uphill! Sometimes they turn out to be physically unable to work the turret around capitalist wreckers, but hey, the armor means they usually get plenty of time to work the problem.

Also, the 152mm gun is fairly low-velocity with non-fantastic performance against armor, but it turns out this doesn't matter if the HE shells are so powerful that the blast alone is sufficient to rip a German tank's turret clean off.

It's a thing of beauty!

Responding to filtered comment. The tank sounds cool though.

Fixed!