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Wellness Wednesday for May 6, 2026

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  1. Work. Job interview went well, although I'm not sure the start date is going to line up how I hope. Otherwise, wrapping up the resubmission for second first author paper (some drama there), and plugging away on my final paper.
  2. Fitness: Started running again, and going to start Norwegian singles/doubles next week.
  3. Intellectual Stuff: Plugging away at After Virtue. Discussed the Pacific War trilogy with my friend Dylan last night which was also very fruitful. Meditating consistently at least once a day now.
  4. Finances: Third roommate is still not locked down. Spending last month was only 2.6k, which led me to have an almost 30% savings rate!
  5. Dating. Nothing to report.
  6. Tarot. No session this week
  7. Socializing: Spanish happy hour and watching the Kinetic Sculpture race
  8. Screen time: 1 hour phone! Now do my PC haha.
  9. Mental health: feeling excited

How goes it @FtttG, @self_made_human @bird_crombie @falling-star @Tollund_Man4 ?

Doing ok on my stated goals of quitting nicotine, reducing alcohol consumption and gaming, but probably more importantly I'm spending all day at work speaking French which will improve my life a lot more than anything else. Half the point of trying to get more disciplined was so I could improve my French, the other half of getting back into the gym and reading more will come easily enough I think. My girlfriend will also be moving in with me in a month or two and she's not a big drinker so I'll just naturally be better on that front.

I still think it's good to try and waste less time and be healthier but I think I'm on the path I wanted to be on without needing to be super disciplined like I thought I'd have to be. New Year's Resolutions accomplished I guess.

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