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There may be people like this, but I'm not. (But I'll make it even easier. If I woke up tomorrow morning and I was transformed into a 25 year old version of myself, I'd be delighted. ) This single counter example disproves the entire generalization.
Unless of course, what transgender really means is that the person desires to be the other gender. Which I strongly suspect is pretty close to the truth.
Nobody in this thread is saying it's universally true though. In fact lots of people, me included in the comment you're replying to, say that it isn't.
I strongly disagree. Here's what the person had said:
This person is clearly making a universal generalization. He doesn't say "this probably means that you are transgender" or "this might mean that you are transgender." Rather, he says "this means that you are transgender" without any qualification. Therefore a single counter-example is sufficient to disprove the entire argument.
But okay, obviously you are not on the hook to defend another person's argument. So let me ask you this:
Under what circumstances is it true that a desire (or preference) to "wake up as a woman," indicates that the individual is transgender?
Hang on, how is this in contradiction? If you have a strong sense of gender perception, then the test works? If you don't have a strong sense of gender perception, it's unclear in what sense the concept of transgender even applies to you.
I have no idea what your point is here. The person is making an unqualified generalization. Therefore a single counter-example will suffice to disprove the generalization.
But "I think I would be fine with Henry Cavill's body" is not a counterexample to "if you feel dysphoria in Henry Cavill's body, you are transgender" at all, so I'm confused. Maybe lay out the exact generalization you mean?
The original argument was that if you are a man and you wake up as a woman and you are happy with the change, then you are transgender. I and another poster pointed out that this argument proves too much, for example if I wake up as a 25 year old and I am happy with the change, it doesn't say anything about my identity. So really I poked a hole in the broader implication of the argument, not the argument itself. But still the same principle applies.
Suppose someone argues "If A, then B." And it follows from their argument that "If C, then D." And you find a single example of NOT D following from C. That single example defeats the original "If A, then B"
I think you misread that. The argument is the exact opposite: if you wake up (or imagine waking up) as a woman and feel dysphoria, you are now transgender. You can now tell that gender is real because you perceive that yours is wrong.
Here's the argument, or at least the part of the argument that I responded to:
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