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Wellness Wednesday for July 8, 2026

The Wednesday Wellness threads are meant to encourage users to ask for and provide advice and motivation to improve their lives. It isn't intended as a 'containment thread' and any content which could go here could instead be posted in its own thread. You could post:

  • Requests for advice and / or encouragement. On basically any topic and for any scale of problem.

  • Updates to let us know how you are doing. This provides valuable feedback on past advice / encouragement and will hopefully make people feel a little more motivated to follow through. If you want to be reminded to post your update, see the post titled 'update reminders', below.

  • Advice. This can be in response to a request for advice or just something that you think could be generally useful for many people here.

  • Encouragement. Probably best directed at specific users, but if you feel like just encouraging people in general I don't think anyone is going to object. I don't think I really need to say this, but just to be clear; encouragement should have a generally positive tone and not shame people (if people feel that shame might be an effective tool for motivating people, please discuss this so we can form a group consensus on how to use it rather than just trying it).

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New Year's resolution check-in:

  • Still on holiday and so haven't been to the gym. Can deadlift 1.84x my bodyweight for 3 reps, squat 1.28x for 6 reps and bench press .87x for 6 reps.
  • Have not consumed any pornography since waking up on January 1st. Nearly at the halfway mark.

How goes it @self_made_human, @thejdizzler, @birb_cromble, @ThomasdelVasto and @falling-star?

I've barely been drinking, I went out twice in June and not at all so far this month. I moved into a new apartment and work is picking up so I've just been too busy and it's way too hot in France to get away with a hangover at work.

The physicality of working in a kitchen is getting to me a bit, I'm decently fit so there's no joint pain but I'm going to go to the doctor and buy new shoes because when I get up and take the first few steps in the morning my feet feel like they're bruised.

Long term things are looking good. I'm working at a high enough level now that I'm pretty confident I could ask for a better wage soon, the head chef disappeared for a month to cover for an emergency at the owner's other restaurant and me and the sous-chef are managing just fine.

When I worked in a hotel, rubber or gel insoles were a godsend.