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God literally designed much of childbearing's effects (as well as the sweat of the man's brow when he toils and the fact that both men and women wither and die) as a punishment. It is not a positively colored feature.
When the devs refuse to patch blatant bugs, modders will step in, e.g. Skyrim.
But of course I don't actually believe that, I just humored you. Evolution literally designed the woman's body. Evolution is a retarded vibecoder that doesn't have "make no mistakes, revise your work" in the prompt. If it works, it works. Once it stops working, then it will either get fixed, slowly, based on whichever iterations work the best, or the whole project gets canceled.
Christianity puts a great deal of emphasis on suffering, punishment, sacrifice as a mean to better oneself.
It's a pretty common observation that living like zoo animals who don't have to perform work to get fed is not an ideal existence. It might not be true in all cases, it's hard to tell.
Perhaps the people who grow up with very privileged backgrounds do have overall better average life-satisfaction or make better moral decisions, I don't have the data.
Evolution so far does not seem to favor running away from a female body's natural purpose, but who knows, the future may be brewing in axlotl tanks.
You said you don't understand "the concept of a pregnancy ruining the woman's body". How complicated is it? Empirically we see that the body is worse off, like a man's body is worse off after (literally) backbreaking work.
"God designed it for that purpose" doesn't demonstrate that it's not ruining, not all purposes engineered by God are meant to be good for the body. As you seem to agree w.r.t. Christian sacrifice and self-mortifying.
Perhaps you think that women should be glad to ruin their bodies with pregnancies, or men with labor, because it's overall a good thing, then say so instead of feigning ignorance about "what ever does ruining mean".
That's like saying using a knife to cut is ruining it because the blade dulls with use.
Would it be better not to use the knife then?
Theoretically, driving your car 'ruins' it because it adds mileage and uses the parts and causes depreciation.
So you should keep the car in a garage at all times?
My point is that pregnancy is the natural state of a woman, just as labor is the natural state of a man.
What would you need the man's body for if not to perform some type of labor?
Thank goodness this man's body has never performed any type of labor before, it is perfectly preserved at the ripe age of 80 to go and dig a trench.
The purposes of tools are what people use them for. Theoretically, if I needed my car for other things than driving, I wouldn't want to destroy it, especially if I do not really need to actually drive anywhere.
If there was someone else who wanted to use my body for some purpose of theirs, I regret to say I didn't ask.
I don't live in theory.
Nobody ever says 'No don't drive your car, you're ruining it!', that's preposterous.
If you have a man's body and you're using it for labor, you are not ruining it. If you are not using it for labor, you are wasting it.
If you have a woman's body and you're using it to bear children, you are not ruining it. If you are not using it to bear children, you are wasting it.
Again, I didn't ask you, or anyone, what to use my knife for, and neither so for the body. Non-theoretically, people do all manner of things with their tools, such as collecting nice cars (or knives) to set them up in a viewing stand, or using them in specific occasions that do not match up to your imagined, monadically perfect telos. So it is with bodies.
Yes, and some people use the language of 'ruining your body' to talk about pregnancy, which I find incorrect.
If you'd rather keep women's bodies in a viewing stand, that's your preference, but there is no need to shame birthing people (or people of birth?).
I don't shame women who choose to bear children or men who choose to work in the mines. It is simply a fact that such things place a wear on the body that many find undesirable and some do not know about, being affected by the overly romanticized picture of childbirth or working trades. If you'd rather experience grandfatherhood as a pained physical wreck after proudly using your body for all it's worth rather than taking a more measured approach, you're welcome to.
Addendum: if bodies are tools they are tools of a very different kind than a knife or a car. Purpose comes first in all acts where a tool might be used, and then comes the tool. A man would be regarded as unwise if he acquired a hammer for no particular reason and then came looking for nails to pound. (There is an entire proverb about that.) A body on the other hand is acquired before any purpose can be conceived, not to mention being instrumental in conceiving its, or any, purposes in the first place.
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