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Can someone give me an analysis on who Abdul El-Sayed actually is as a person? He gave a weird interview where he said trans is a made up issue because your daughter has an I-Phone in her pocket so she will see dicks all the time anyway.
The first impression is he’s some sort of Muslim Brotherhood type. My second impression is pegging him as similar to brown friends I know whose parents do something science (medicine/engineering), are fairly wealthy, follow zero Muslim codes, hate white girls but probably slept with a few dozen in their twenties. All of these types are/can be fully assimilated into America. Half seem like they really do assimilate. The other half to me seem like they have a chip remaining on their shoulder that their people couldn’t build America.
My guess is he’s that type that still has a big chip on his shoulder to fully white people. So thinking things like sexualizing normies is perfectly fine for him in the same way a westerner might go to Thailand for a holiday and not view Thai’s as his people.
Where does he say that? I watched the whole clip and didn't hear it. He said free flow of information is important and you have to coach your kid to deal with it as an adult instead of trying to completely isolate them from it.
The very obvious connection that he was making is that “free flowing information” in this case is minor girls seeing live male genitalia connected to an individual that possibly has a life altering high level sexual fetish while they’re changing.
No thanks. I’d much rather have everyone involved in this equation except the female minors expelled from polite society forever.
And I can virtually guarantee that this is the supermajority position of parents with children if this is given to a secret ballot. Male access to traditionally female only spaces are already very unpopular electorally. A lot of people can’t bring themselves to say this publicly because the consequences of openly stating your preference is still very severe.
It's more about teenagers, education and internet usage and not about physically being around trans people. Specifically, he's asked about topics taught in school (e.g. banned books etc) and he compares it to the internet where anything is available. Watch the full video and it makes that clear.
I don't care. Democracy is bad. Do parents let their children vote in the household? Then why should any random person over 18 get to vote? Most people are children forever.
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