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Wellness Wednesday for March 8, 2023

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Is this necessary? SneerClub would have a field day seeing this posted on TheMotte.

Within the same second that the photons from the title hit my retina, before I could finish scrolling down to the bottom of the post, my inner monologue had already voiced the words "Aella on suicide watch."

"Holy shit, a thread about showering," he laughed in gasps, each mountainous heave puffing a cloud of Cheeto dust into the dark room. Stubby fingers ponderously wiped queso off on his hairless moobs before knocking aside enough Mountain Dew cans to reach the crusty keyboard. "Time to destroy their community with le epic sneer for my fellow clubbers."

Exactly how I imagine it.

Clarification: they did, or they might? I’ve edited it to be far blander than when I tiredposted it.

They might.

Thank you for the feedback and the reminder we are quite public-facing herein.

Did you know this about towels?

Sneerclub has a field day no matter what we do. Best to just ignore those losers.

That said, I also agree that this is a weird topic. @DuplexFields, I think you're way overthinking showering my dude.

Comments edited down to be less sneerable. But hot water causing bacne is still knowledge I wish I’d had twenty years ago, and knowledge I am happy to impart.

To be honest I keep the water in my shower pretty hot (not like painfully scalding hot, but certainly somewhere near 100 degrees), and I've never had acne issues from it. I imagine it's one of those things that varies from person to person.

I was taught to turn it up to where it was painful and turn it down from there, and stand in it until I got used to it. I had no idea I was reducing the effectiveness of my skin as a barrier to germs. Now I go with as lukewarm as I can stand in winter, and tepid in summer.

Disagree. If not here, where? I'm in my mid-30s and still occasionally pick up on some new optimization for routines like this. This is precisely the community, and precisely the thread, I'd expect to find such insights.

Well... nowhere, to be honest. I'm not really upset by it or anything. If not for the sneerclub mention, I would've just moved on without commenting. But yeah, for me personally I think there's no benefit to worrying about getting to optimize showering. It's a simple task with not much to it, and there's no need to make it more complex than that imo. If you're getting something out of it, you do you of course.

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