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On one hand, it seems like regulatory bodies sometimes make decisions without proper justification.
On the other hand, I believe it’s important for young people to have time to develop naturally before being exposed to substances that can alter their minds and moods. This includes alcohol, nicotine, adderall, SSRIs and other substances. If a teenager tries something and decides it’s their favorite thing, it can have long-lasting effects on how they cope with adversity and their perception of their authentic self. They may only feel like themselves when their mind or mood is altered. An adult who discovers nicotine might view it as a fun experience, but a teenager who has been vaping from ages 13 to 18 might view it as an essential part of their identity.
On the third hand, the decision about whether or not to use these substances should be between a teenager and their parents. Just because some teenagers might make choices that aren’t in their best interest doesn’t mean that these substances should be banned for everyone.
Does that include coffee as well?
It does, for me. I've used coffee to mask bad eating/sleeping/exercise habits as an adult and it's tough to quit, it's too convenient a crutch. I want to teach my kids to examine and fix their diet and activity patterns before grabbing a stimulant. Might not work, but worth a shot. Or two.
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