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Culture War Roundup for the week of May 1, 2023

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If you want to get a divorce after having kids, you've proven your future planning unreliable enough. and if you're kids are already harmed by your (or your spouse's) bad decisions, you shouldn't have the benefit of sharing that with the rest of the country.

Suppose someone in the marriage is struck by a disease or illness that drastically changes the calculus. Do you make an exception in such cases?

I don't think such a complex solution is workable anyway, but if you start splicing up voting rights beyond "everyone" it's a lossy thing to begin with, and I would worry less about catching edge cases. In this hypothetical, everyone above 25 gets a vote, but there is a general finger on the scale toward stable families, in such a scenario I would be less concerned about the distribution of that finger on the scale. Much like how a landowner requirements don't suggest that no-one without land would be capable of voting, but it's rather a broad brush toward a enfranchising a certain interest.

I'm not talking about that kind of thing. What if they're struck in such a way that their personality fundamentally changes, and you're no longer a good fit?

IMO that doesn't change the calculus. Marriage is a solemn vow to spend your lives together. Even if someone's personality changes, you gotta do your best to uphold that vow IMO.

Sure. But the OP was explicitly about future planning. If we're saying that things outside your control don't matter in this case, then that should be the objection, not "your planning sucks"

Yeah, fair enough. I should've looked more at the thread context.

What about divorce as a method of splitting finances to ensure medical bankruptcy doesn't take the house.

This would represent an extremely small number of edge cases and therefore is not worth calibrating the system around.

I'm more concerned about the "I had an affair because I was bored, now my husband's divorcing me, please toast his votes" demographic.

Do you make an exception in such cases?

"Till death do us part." I think is the line. Even today, when mainstream sees divorce as morally neutral, a man abandoning his sick wife for a healthier partner, is seen as valuing his own interest too much.

Doesn't this contradict the OP's line about "you've proven your future planning unreliable"? If we take this argument, planning doesn't even matter, because something you can't predict has now become an important factor.