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It comes off quite a bit differently knowing that she's six months pregnant, just got off her 12-hour shift, and that the theft was on the part of the guy harassing her. What's she supposed to feel like? She would probably be better served by stating the claim plainly rather than becoming emotional, but if I had just worked a long shift, had some scumbag trying to steal a bike from me, and some other guy recording the incident for fun and profit, I might lose my capacity for calm indifference to the situation.
Yeah, there's a particularly nasty tendency recently for these videos that kick off rage mobs to involve people who are literally just trying to live their lives and suddenly they find themselves in a forced dilemma with a camera shoved in their face with no warning or prep.
For instance, some guy on the NY subway who is just trying to get to a destination unscathed.
At least in the situations with, e.g. Kyle Rittenhouse or George Zimmerman (remember him? over ten years ago!) they were arguably inserting themselves into situations where a conflict and confrontation were likely, so there's a certain amount of risk assumption there.
But this trend of depicting ordinary people, probably dealing with various other stressors, just trying to go about their normal days and not intentionally interfering with others, forced into a standoff where they either back down and allow themselves to be trod upon, or they stand their ground and get mobbed by an uncaring internet posse for their 'racism'... it is antisocial in the extreme, if you ask me.
And there's no obvious way to restrict it other than, perhaps make it broadly illegal to publish videos taken of other people in public places, which is surely going to be impossible to enforce at the end of the day.
If you mean Penny, I don't think the camera was his problem.
No, it's pro-social. It's teaching them (and others similarly situated) their place.
I simply do not believe that the overall utility of society is increased by these actions, nor the individual utilities of the people involved.
If I wanted to pick apart 'social fabric' to make it impossible for people to trust each other and make it harder to peacefully resolve conflicts and de-escalate violence, this is exactly the sort of behavior I would want to encourage. All-or-nothing zero sum games, mediated by completely anonymous groups of strangers with no skin in the game and selected specifically for their preferences for malicious retribution.
Not sure what you're getting at in your post at all.
That's not what "pro-social" means, though. Pro-social simply meaning that it's reinforcing the social structure. No different than literal hen-pecking. It's a horrible social structure, of course.
I'd say that's the non-standard definition, where the definition I'm using is "Promoting social good and the welfare of the members of a given society."
Not sure why this implies enforcement or reinforcement of a particular social structures, since in my definition social structures can, in fact, be anti-social.
Social structures cannot be anti-social; you're just trying to equate "pro-social" and "good", which doesn't work because society often sucks.
Society often sucks.
Being 'pro-social' means helping it suck less.
I am genuinely certain that this is the most common definition in use by most people when using these terms.
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