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Culture War Roundup for the week of June 5, 2023

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It's pretty easy if you're not a maladjusted fuck posting on TheMotte like the rest of us, yeah.

Despite adding "like the rest of us" this reads more like an attack than a light-hearted attempt at camaraderie, and your record gives you less benefit of the doubt.

Banned for two days. You don't seem to contribute much besides sneering and antagonism.

If you're actually not young any more, you can't obviously marry young, and having three or more children might cause problems as well.

You can come as close as you can to it (if you’re thirty five, maybe it’s just marriage and one kid; if you’re fifty, maybe it’s just marriage and community) and achieve some measure of, and in many cases a great deal of, happiness.

True, and odds are blaming yourself is more true than blaming everyone else.

That may be, but it also won't wind the clock back.

I and my wife met and married in our mid-30s, and are lucky that we could have two children. However, it wasn't exactly possible to marry each other earlier on account of not having even met each other. None of my earlier relationships were of the sort where having children would have even been an option.

I'm... reasonably sure that the majority of people posting on the Motte are married. Or did the poll we had way back when not cover that?