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Culture War Roundup for the week of June 26, 2023

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Be specific. What actions and how are they connected to the LGBT movement?

Distributing erotic literature featuring sex between adults and children, that is so raunchy that members of the school board interrupt reading from it, out of concern for the children who might be present at the meeting.

It is connected to the LGBT movement because the literature is written, published, distributed, and defended when it comes under criticism, by LGBT activists.

Sounds more like 1 guy slipping by reading raunchy literature, while 100 guys get 10x sentences for anything more serious.

I don't follow what you're even saying? The person reading was a woman trying to raise awareness about the books available in school libraries... how did she slip? Who is getting 10x sentences? What does that have to do with actions indistinguishable from grooming?

I am saying you're anti-dan is making implications that there was a net increase in child molestation because of overly permissive LGBT policies without evidence.

That, if anything, would be @anti_dan, though I don't think that's the point he's making. I'm just answering the question about the specific actions indistinguishable from grooming. You do agree that the example I provided fits the criteria, right?

At this point grooming has taken on such a wide definition in this sphere that you could argue (and many do) that anything involving sexuality and children in the same room should count as grooming. While I agree reading porn to children is not appropriate, I refuse to contribute to torturing the word "grooming" further. Be more specific in your objections.

My view is that "okay groomer" took hold as a response to the sneering "okay boomer" reactions by the allies etc. to any objections.

Then it annoyed that side so much, it became irresistible to keep doing it.

The way you are getting so het-up over the misuse of the word "grooming" that you're doing the "that never happened and if it did, it was a good thing" about the incidence of "LGBT literature in school library so graphic the school board didn't want it read out loud, even though they were defending having it in the school library for the kids to read it".

I would suggest you don't ascribe to me what I never said.

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