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If you're serious, please seek help, and if you're not, please don't throw out attention-seeking suicide threats like this.
You can't "threaten" suicide towards a bunch of strangers who will never know who you are. This is a threat in the exact same way that words are violence, and you're 100% allowed to say ridiculous things for dramatic effect on the Internet, regardless of what The Algorithm (tm) and various dystopian Community Guidelines (tm) says.
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I might offer unsolicited medical advice while studying to be a shrink, but you need a real one. More time on the Motte is unlikely to help either.
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Same help there's always been. God. All you're doing right now is surrendering to the very real demonic forces which have successfully convinced you that not only are you helpless, but there's not even a fight worth fighting. Maybe question those assumptions.
Go to church, make yourself a worthy husband, and raise a solid family that will carry worthwhile values into the next generation. It's about the hardest thing there is to do, but also the worthiest.
And if you're not called to family, then there's about a million and one other things worth doing as well, and many communities of people who will be happy to support you in the work.
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I don't know why you think I will support the "global elites who are out to get you" (I don't even know you), but the reason you're talking to me like a fellow human being is that you are required to do so if you want to participate here.
What does that have to do with anything? Do you think the mods are working for these "global elites"? If so, it's news to me, and I'd like to know who to contact about receiving back pay.
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