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PaperclipPerfector  6mo ago (text post)   2232 thread views

Friday Fun Thread for October 20, 2023

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What are some fun activities I could do with my father in law? Grillin'? Fishing? Idk I'm at a loss for manly activities to do with a man you don't know very well. What's the standard?

I'm a bit biased because I'm an awful fisherman, but it's a bit technical if he's not already experienced at it. What should be an opportunity to just drink beer from a cooler can turn ugly if a hook goes somewhere it shouldn't.

My go-to with my FiL is watching football. You never have to talk about anything serious. Accomplishing yardwork or home improvement tasks can be fraught but at least you're getting something out of the deal. If you both bust your ass it's an excuse to burn more time to drive somewhere and get masculine food you shouldn't normally eat.

I personally always enjoyed shooting the shit with girlfriend's dads. Some of them weren't up for it, others were very enjoyable to talk to. I talk more about serious topics with my FiL then he does with any of his kids.

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