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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 6, 2023

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There's an awful lot of "holidays" that bankers or government employees take off that the rest of the American public does not. Checking my own calendar (as a federal contractor leech no less) our expected holidays are New Years, Memorial Day, 4th of July, Labor Day, Thanksgiving and then a week of days off crammed into the last week of the year to cover Christmas and typical end of year home-for-the-holidays time off. Expected and typicial but we can shift the time off/paid Holiday time to suit personal priorities if for example you find Labor Day morally abhorrent and wanted to celebrate Ayn Rands birthday instead. Aside from government workers (if you have children, arranging for them to be cared for comes up) I don't think I've ever seen something like MLK Day or Washingtons birthday (still the official federal name, everyone else calls it Presidents Day) as anything but advertising banners for some sort of sale, people still going to work like a normal day otherwise.

The point of bank/state holidays isn't that bankers get them off, it's because banks/state offices are required to be open all the other days and it's to be avoided to have 4 days in a row of banks being closed.

As a fellow contracting leech, and one who uses the 9/80 schedule, I was thrilled to realize I have no working Fridays in November. Three day weekends!

Then we're back to "do it on the weekend". I'm a traditionalist, but if it's such a pain in the ass to declare a day off for the majority of people, than you might as well bite the bullet, and end the tradition.

You're forgetting the bigger problem with that one, government workers have to do work to run the election. Expecting them to work weekends is a bridge and a half too far, have to be reasonable about such things.

Poll workers are usually not government workers in the USA- they’re volunteers. Changing early voting hours to make sure they can get to church is a part of the GOP agenda that is decried as ‘intentional race based voter suppression’ for spurious reasons every time voting regulations become a political issue.

They manage to do it without turning into ash in every other country.