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Wellness Wednesday for December 6, 2023

The Wednesday Wellness threads are meant to encourage users to ask for and provide advice and motivation to improve their lives. It isn't intended as a 'containment thread' and any content which could go here could instead be posted in its own thread. You could post:

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My German Shepherd, 9 years old now, suddenly developed a painful limp in his rear leg and could barely move without whimpering in agony.

The vet I was seeing initially suggested it was a sprain and prescribed NSAIDs, but after a few weeks of no improvement, I took him for a review and then got an xray done. After reviewing the plates myself, I'm confident he's developed hip dysplasia, which is what I initially suspected.

So far, I'm not satisfied with the followup advice from the vet, which encompasses more painkillers and physiotherapy. Does anyone here have experience with a large dog with hip dysplasia? Any tips for restoring QOL?

What especially sucks is that he was healthy as ever till it happened, seemingly overnight, and it breaks my heart to see him this way. If surgery or other, more intensive options can help, I'll shell out for them. I want him to be happy, goddammit. Why does everyone we love grow old and die? Especially dogs, who are cursed with a lifespan far shorter than their nature warrants, when nobody fucking asked for parrots to often outlive their owners. "Polly wants a cracker." Shut up, Polly, unless you want a cap in your ass, you glorified echolalic painted chicken.

All dogs don't go to heaven. Nobody does. That's all the more reason to make their fleeting time here worth it..

The trouble with love is that dogs don't last long enough and people last too long.

There are parrots and tortoises, I suppose. The former is maligned in the OP, but I think they can often be quite friendly companions.