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My coworker brought this up just recently. When asked by another coworker why the Royal Family seemed (disputedly) to have it out for Megan Markle, they - they're trans, and by far the most politically vocal on the team - responded with "racism." The co-worker who had brought it up suggested it was because she was American. No, they don't like the Duchess because she's black, full stop.
I do agree that the racism angle is mostly meaningless in the UK. I didn't know she was meant to be black, even when I was watching Suits a few years ago. On the other hand, my wife's grandmother is in her late 80s talked disappointingly of the prince marrying "some half-caste". So data point of 1.
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The problem is that, at least on a social construct view of race, she's not black in Britain, but she IS American. She can self-identify as black if she wants, but one thing that almost everyone seems to agree upon regarding race is that it's not decided by self-identification.
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A fairly large problem with this argument is that under 'the English gaze' Meghan doesn't parse as black. In this country our black communities mostly are only two or three generations old so there are relatively few very light-skinned black people. Moreover, this isn't Norway - even going back centuries there has always been a non-trivial proportion of ethnically English people at least as 'swarthy' as Meghan. Personally, I did not realise that Meghan was officially black until the media kindly informed me, and that's as a young person with an unhealthy interest in the culture war. I suspect this to have been a common experience among Brits.
So, if we are to argue that racism was a large factor in Megan's treatment by the Royal Family, we must suppose that either (a) the British aristocracy are unusually well attenuated to the American racial classification system or (b) that despite not sub-consciously categorising Meghan as black, the Royals were racist to her on account of the consciously received knowledge that she is of African-American descent.
Now I accept that an argument can be made for both these cases, but neither seems obviously true to me. More probable is the suggestion that she was disliked for being American.
Also we have a fairly common thing where common chavvy white girls will fake tan to the point of looking like Meghan or darker, much like the Ganguro style girls of Japan, and this is particularly common among footballers' wives and other shallow fame-seekers -- of which Meghan is definitely one. So I presume most people just thought she was yet another famehunting fake tanned slag who landed the famous man she hunted. Her level of entitlement and attention seeking (watch her unnervingly find the camera in any room and stare directly into it with a plastic smile!) certainly made that angle seem likely to me.
Meghan doesn't look any darker than Victoria Beckham, for instance.
Whatever you think of her character, I can't imagine anyone thinking she's a 'famehunting fake tanned slag', since she was already quite famous, is obviously not fake tanned, and is undeniably elegant and attractive - a world away from the stereotypical Essex sambuca girl.
She can't have been all that famous, as I never heard of her before she married into the British royal family. I'm not claiming to be an infallible index of famous Americans or anything, but if I haven't even heard someone's name in passing I don't believe they're actually particularly famous. Being that famous means that almost everyone, if not everyone, actually has heard of you before.
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I would be willing to bet that less than 1% of people here had ever heard of her before she became entangled with the Prince.
Just because she's not obviously fake tanned (i.e. badly and cheaply) doesn't mean she couldn't be at all. Good fake tan exists and it looks pretty much like her.
"tactless and rude" somewhat undermines this interpretation of her. Every single part of her screams fake. But if that's what you're into...
Seems a Prince's wife is just a tier up from footballer's wife, to me. She might be higher quality, but she's of the same taxonomy.
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In my former British colony of a nation half-black people like Meghan are considered "half-caste" and it was a legitimately distinct category from black or white. But they are/were considered to fall between the two in status
So it's simultaneously possible for her to be not-black to people and to be different or less than.
As I said: I'm skeptical that this can all be boiled down to racism (the one concrete racist accusation they raised about the Royal Family - someone inquired about her son's skin tone- is one I've heard in black families...) but it's not impossible they actually are somewhat racist, on top of classist, snobbish and distrustful of foreigners (especially divorced Americans)
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I'm American, and she doesn't look black to me either. After hearing about it for the first time when it made the news last year, I now think... she still doesn't look black, actually. Her hair and nose especially. Unless she's displaying stereotypically black speech patterns or something in private, the race angle here is transparently silly.
She's actually almost certainly had a nose operation to narrow her nose, which was previously one of her more African-American features.
(crap site, but the pictures don't lie https://radaronline.com/photos/prince-harry-meghan-markle-nose-job-plastic-surgery-photos/)
So she made herself less pretty?
As an american, to me she looks ambiguously something-or-other; if her eyes were darker I'd think she was some manner of hispanic. I'd certainly not call her black without adding "...ish"
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I doubt Meghan would be considered black in Norway either. She certainly wouldn’t here in Finland.
Nobody thinks she's black. She's black in the same way that you ain't black if you don't vote for Biden. It's more of an honorific than a description, and the charges of racism are transparently cynical. To assert that she is black is to signal tribal allegiance and dare anyone to point out the madness. This is a very real case of see deer, say horse. It is perhaps fitting that your trans colleague would insist on doing so the most strongly.
I'm pretty sure you got users mixed up there. I have no trans colleague...
Right, I meant Pongahl's trans colleague.
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I don't think she would be considered black in the US, except by people who have an ideological interest in her being considered as such.
She probably wouldn’t be described as such by someone passing her on the street, but if she were, say, an HR lady or secretary or what have you instead of a princess, then ‘hey, Meghan the new HR admin is black’ probably wouldn’t surprise anyone.
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