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"leftoids", come on man. Great comment, and then you just throw that in there to make sure we know what side you're on. I own some property and when I get with other landlords the most pejorative term for lease holders is "rentoids" for the real bad ones. Dehumanizing to the max. Dial it back before the Rwandan machetes come out eh?
Good to know some people still understand humor.
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My guy, this is not how you solve your downvotes problem.
If you think a comment breaks the rules then just report it.
I ain't no snitch. I tested out the report feature, it didn't take.
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It's a pretty common rdrama.net term. In my experience usually people who use it on rDrama are just as happy to call people on the other side "rightoids", so even if it doesn't necessarily meet this site's rules, it's generally not a partisan statement.
On rDrama "leftoid" and "rightoid" are certainly terms of mockery, but generally the "-oid" suffix is specifically meant to single out leftists and right-wingers who are are perceived as following their ideologies in rigid, conformist, and/or unintelligent ways. They're not necessarily terms that are used to refer to all left-leaning or all right-leaning people. Although sometimes they are.
Thanks for reading my bit of cultural ambassadorship. Come to rDrama, we have fun over there.
Yeah, right now we have Donkey Kong December going on too so there's extra special flavour (yes, I know it's April, don't ask).
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This forum isn't rDrama and I would hope that it doesn't turn into it.
We do owe them a debt of gratitude, since in the Great Trek Westwards Eastwards Northwards Southwards from Reddit proper, the basic template and code for this place was adapted from rDrama and built on top of its bones.
Are we not Dramatards and -oids of all descriptions ourselves?
me too thanks
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Everyone you’re talking to here is already on rDrama.
I'm not.
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I definitely am not, and thats after going to take a look. The whole place looks deeply unappealing to me
I am sure lots of people enjoy it, but the overlap with here seems to much less than 100%
Least closeted rDrama user.
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This is racism. Reported.
Low effort shitposting is not the sort of engagement we're looking for here. Neither is false reporting. Lots of red flags in the mod history, including a note about a previous attempt to false-report, and no QCs. Last action was a Tempban.
@jkf is correct: this is not rDrama, and we ask that you not post here as you would there. Please apply more effort to your interactions when you return.
Tempbanning for three days.
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Everyone I talk to in real life regularly goes to the toilet, but that doesn't mean I want them to drop their pants and do their business as I talk to them.
You really haven’t pooed until you’ve pooed with friends.
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Never setting a foot there.
No need; rDrama is gentrifying this neighborhood as we speak. Enjoy your cultural enrichment.
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-oid is the new -ist. Time is a flat circle.
Language changes, it also has meaning. If I start calling people demoRATS and repubtards etc...etc.. it very quickly makes this place pretty terrible and a lot closer to facebook boomer town. Leftoids or rightoids is in the exact same tradition as calling people NPCs.
If you seriously think that zoomers won't be calling themselves leftoids and rightoids in serious political debates when they eventually are old enough to hold office, you have a poor ability to extrapolate from the past.
For what it's worth, i think your oidophobe prejudice is still correct, it is silly and uncooth to use this verbiage at this time including around these parts, despite rDrama colonizer protestations. But it's really a question of time.
Post ironic dehumanization laughs at our silly ideas of civility and endless euphemism treadmills from its throne of hyper-reality. And all shall bow.
Oh it may happen, I mean clearly it already is happening. Just hoping to keep that kind of banter out of this particular corner of internet discourse.
Detterman, D. K. (2010). What happened to moron, idiot, imbecile, feebleminded, and retarded?
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