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Culture War Roundup for the week of May 20, 2024

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Look, I completely understand that you're unhappy with what @TitaniumButterfly said, and understandably so. He's been warned by @Amadan, and presuming he doesn't clean up his act, or at least say such things in a less maximally inflammatory manner, he's probably going to end up banned.

However, your own response, especially submitted as a top level comment in this thread, doesn't fly either. I'm not going to put anything on your mod record, since you're new and justifiably incensed, but at the very least, you need to put more effort into a rebuttal. Yes, I'm aware of how weird that sounds.

If you'd just stated this as a reply, I probably wouldn't have bothered to respond or put on the mod hat, but once someone has been modded for their actions, you should leave it at that and not performatively call them out to make a rhetorical point. After all, to make a very lukewarm defense of them, they went into a great deal of explaining as to why they hold the view that they do.

I'm not going to put anything on your mod record

Off-topic question. How does the "mod record" work? Do you use spreadsheets? Or does the software for this site have an admin UI for adding/browsing those things on per-user basis?

It's a drop down panel that has a list of every notable mod action, both good and bad. Warnings, bans, AAQCs, they all go in there. Per user, as you'd expect. We can add additional commentary in the free form text entry section.

Far superior to Reddit's implementation of mod tools. I suppose that's inevitable when the primary dev also owns and runs the site, and has a vested interest in his jannies not committing sudoku with our occasionally contentious userbase.

While I get official warnings on my permanent record (even though the mods didn't even say the word warning) for slightly edgy posts deep in the replies, this guy gets off scot free for this top level post. And I'm still salty about that time on the old place where I wrote a comment expecting to eat a ban, but instead the mods deleted my post.

Have you tried being newer and having your incense being on the more correct side of history?

and the lovestory of the mod team with the idea of "increasing the participation of more Darwins in the subreddit/site" continues.