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Just because he committed a crime doesn't give us carte blanche to commit the worst argument in the world.
I'm certainly glad to see that a case of a guy actually fucking a 12 year old has brought out such principled precision in the forum that is generally absent when discussing sex ed in schools.
Definitely not weird behavior to give a full throated defense of the terms used to describe a 19 year preying on a 12 year old.
You seem to think we care about malicious sneering consensus enforcement fresh from from the latest progGPT firmware update.
If anything that's going to make people here double down on saying things that piss you off and filter the normies, because they are weird and proud of it.
Okay, the queue is just full of your comments. You are consistently picking fights with other users, other mods, and the general concept of things you don’t like. In this particular example, you’re doing so while also speaking for a number of people who may or may be on board.
Take another week off to cool down. Quit trying to rally the troops.
This is just pointless. Why is someone getting banned for doing the exact same thing that a poster did above them but the above poster doesn't even get a warning?
The mod queue being how we decide if someone gets banned is just dumb. I check the user/janitor thing every time I'm here and it's like half of the reported comments (which I assume is how they get there) is because someone disagreed with them and they're using the report as an extra downvote. And it's obvious that is skews in one political direction as well, maybe because they're a smaller portion of the people here or maybe it's just their way because it certainly is on places like reddit. But using that as an excuse is surely just going to end up with people deciding the only way to decide what is acceptable on the site is just mass reporting everything they disagree with.
I still don't understand why the mods here can't ever ban people for the things they do that are bad but instead keep a secret tally of bad things that they don't disclose and then ban them for all those things when they do something less egregious. And almost always in a baited argument where the person doing the baiting does not even get a warning.
The mod queue is not how "we" decide if someone gets banned. It is one of several things that the mods consider. It is never the sole consideration, but if you have a whole bunch of comments in the mod queue because you're on a rage-posting spree, we are more likely to say "This guy needs a time out." @SteveKirk's post above was bad enough to earn a ban (because of his growing record of tantrums, which incidentally precede this account, because I know exactly which previous permabanned account he used), but the fact that he was posting many comments like this certainly warranted mention.
This is true, unfortunately.
This is absolutely not true. You see the volunteer queue; we see the actual reports and who made them. The majority of reports are indeed from individuals who use the report tool as a super-downvote button or to express their dislike of the poster. (Waves to all my haters.) I can assure you there are plenty of rightists who do this. In fact, I think you have the numbers reversed; leftists are a smaller portion of posters here, hence the majority of reports come from right-leaning people, and rightists are definitely not less prone to reporting posts because someone disagreed with them. There are a number of people who seem to reflexively report anyone arguing with them as "antagonistic." (You know who you are. Yes, we notice.) Most of them are not lefties.
There are people who do this. We are not stupid and we see the reports.
Again, untrue. Contra @The_Nybbler's usual ankle-biting (he's been singing this same song for years even though he's been very patiently walked through the errors in his thinking multiple times), it's not an "authority tactic." Our moderation is about as transparent as it can be; we post warnings and bans publicly. Our tally is not "secret" except in the sense that only mods can see your mod log (in which we record all past infractions so that we have them to refer to and know if we've seen this behavior before). We tell you when you are accumulating a record that's likely to result in increased consequences. We usually point to those past infractions when we start applying them.
When someone gets banned for something "less egregious" it's because they've been a persistent bad actor and told to stop doing that. There is such a thing as "the last straw." If you call me a jerk once, you'll probably get a warning. If you've been namecalling for months and getting repeatedly warned and banned for it, then the next time you call me a jerk, you might get a permaban. Anyone who claims this comes as a surprise is not being honest.
We are not secret police collecting dossiers on people we don't like; we tell you what you're doing and why you're being modded (and ask you to stop). Almost always, the people who get permabanned are the people who tell us (implicitly or explicitly) "Fuck you and your rules."
Unsurprisingly, a lot of moderation occurs in the context of a heated argument, and equally unsurprisingly, the person modded (and his supporters) almost always think the other guy started it. Sometimes we agree and warn both participants; sometimes we don't.
What level of evidence would be required to convince you that there are good-faith concerns about your recurring behavior instead of just flippantly dismissing the topic whenever it comes up?
I have in the past, more than once, indulged people who wanted another round of "Complain about the moderation" (or me, specifically). It always turns out to be a mistake, because while people do sometimes have valid concerns (and whether you believe this or not, I listen and have changed some of the ways I respond over the years as a result), it is mostly just people who are angry because they don't like how moderation works, and mostly they don't like how moderation works because they think we're being too hard on their tribe and not hard enough on the other tribe.
So no, I don't flippantly dismiss the topic every time it comes up, but on the other hand, the "level of evidence" that would be required to convince me that whatever bad thing you think about me is true would be rather high. For starters, I would have to be convinced it's not coming from personal or tribal animosity, and you'd have to show me where the "recurring behavior" is not "You modded someone I don't think you should mod, and you didn't mod someone I think you should mod, and also I don't like your tone."
You, specifically, would have a particularly high bar, because you are precisely one of those people I've referred to in the past who uses the mod queue as a super-downvote button to report people making arguments you don't like. Thus in my mind, you have fallen into the bucket of "tribal warriors whose complaints are mostly made in bad faith." Trying to convince me otherwise would require you to make an argument that doesn't match that pattern.
Then, I would wonder why, if you think I am such a bad mod, you have not raised these concerns with the other mods. Oh, you say, that would be pointless because we're a clique and will never police each other? Well, while it's certainly true one person (or multiple people) complaining is not going to convince any of us that someone is a bad mod, we do actually discuss it when users complain! And sometimes we have disagreements about how moderation should be done. Sometimes in general, and sometimes about specific people or posts. You will have to take my word for it that if I was out of line, it would be discussed amongst ourselves.
But sure, go ahead. Give it your best shot. What are your good faith concerns about my recurring behavior? I promise to at least give you a non-flippant answer, though it may not be one that satisfies you.
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