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Culture War Roundup for the week of April 21, 2025

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It's a curious problem I think. I am against most of that stuff being taught in school but the whole "teach the controversy" thing must have some limits. What would my enemies do with this veto? I'm not so sure the opt out is the correct thing to demand, the battlefield should surely be the curriculum itself.

Yes, an opt-out liter just cedes the territory to the attackers, and you know they won't honour it the second they get the power. That's why my response was ignoring the sophistry at court and asking "how did we get to this point, and how do we stop it happening again?"

All the viable solutions are outside of the law and politics.

Edit: Awesome, I make a neutral post in line with the choices I've lived and personally spoken of repeatedly. But someone fedposts near it after the fact, so now I look sus and eat a ban. This place is a fucking joke. "Well, he didn't say it, but next to this thing someone else said later, maybe he's thinking it."

Oh, great.

I just gave Capital a slap on the wrist for his near-identical response. For consistency’s sake, you can have one, too.

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What a joke

You've been asked to not do this in the most clear way possible.

Not any other critics of modding have been asked to stop. Just you, and just these kinds of dumb comments.

I am tempted to take your advice and give you a permaban:

Letting obvious trolling go on this long is a bad look, but the mods are such easy marks for it.

After all these sorts of comments you make are obvious trolling.

Community sentiment is generally against perma-bans these days. 30-days for you

This is a terrible ban and using his comment about the obvious troll poster troll posting and getting away with it because charity is endless to new posters who pretend not to know anything is ridiculous.

But the reason this is a terrible ban is because WhiningCoil's ban was a joke on several levels of both being bad and lazy and sets an assuming the worst kind of rule to the forum as a whole that I'm sure will go well.

But the bad moderating here seems to be here to stay if you can't just admit that you made a mistake and should actually be as charitable to the people you mod as they are supposed to be to you.

We've extended a great deal of charity to Steve. We've asked him to stop making these sorts of comments. He chose not to.

He has also been warned many times for antagonistic behavior, both on this account and the previous account. He was very close to earning a permanent ban with his previous account's behavior. We made a note to ourselves to not completely ignore his previous account's bad behavior, but we mostly did and proceeded to be lenient with him as if he was a newish user.

Other people's bad behavior, even if it is a mod's bad behavior, is not an excuse for bad behavior.

If we specifically ask any user not to do a specific thing. We mean it and we will take note of it. If Netstack had broken every rule we have and gotten de-modded for his comment I still would have banned Steve for his comment. This is a 'fuck around and find out" moment. We literally only have two punishments in our toolbox, the first is asking people to stop doing a thing, and the second is bans.

I clearly said in my comment that no one else has been asked to not provide feedback. Only Steve, and only those types of comments.


I personally think netstack's ban of @WhiningCoil was fine. Its only that he should have been harsher with @Capital_Room. 5 days at least for capital room for clear fedposting. And just one day for whining coil cuz it sorta looked like fedposting.

As far as I am concerned fedposting is one of the few existential threats that this board faces. The other two are zorba kicking the bucket and a democrat party crackdown on free speech on the web.

One day bans are minor and basically nothing. That is us saying "yes really, this is a rule we will enforce, don't do it". For anything resembling fed posting I'm also willing to hand out bans like candy. Don't fucking do it. We can choose to be lenient when it is just the rules we care about enforcing. But this is a rule that the world will enforce upon us if we don't self police. Be annoyingly verbose and add a bunch of disclaimers if you insist on doing it. We still might ban you, because again we aren't really the ones making the rule on this. Sorry it sucks, I don't like it anymore than you do.

fedposting is one of the few existential threats

Is there evidence for this?

Isn't it more likely the FBI creates dozens of sock puppets to help the fedposters planning or present them with lady governor kidnapping plans?

If there was press coverage wouldn't lots of new users be likely?

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