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Culture War Roundup for the week of June 16, 2025

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Just refuse to pay taxes and see how society reacts to this simple act of peaceful rebellion. If men aren't needed, if women are capable of getting along without them, then things should putter along okay anyway.

It will fail because men in the government want your money, not because women do.

Men who were elected mostly by women. Who want gibs.

This "women never do anything" perspective is one of the major pillars holding the status quo in place.

Everyone wants gibs. Cushy government jobs, questionable grants, corporate welfare and industry nepotism are not a gendered phenomenon.

Sure, but women want gibs more as a matter of simple fact. It is absolutely gendered.

I don't.

Neither do it, at face value, but you and I are a vanishingly small minority.

And OTOH, let's dig deeper: I don't want there to be gibs, but since the gibs are already out of the box, why shouldn't they go to myself as well as to the less deserving? With that framing in mind, I too want gibs.

I voluntarily took a pretty big paycut to avoid gibs. Admittedly, I am not exactly of a pure heart here, as I was enjoying said gibs for quite a while, but I claim partial credit for eventually refusing them.

As if governments didn't collect taxes with brutal force for less noble causes than that for millenia.

Your point being?

My point being, the state of welfare for women is utterly irrelevant to what happens if men "just refuse to pay taxes", as per faceh, because governments extract taxes with certainty that doesn't care what they then spend them on. If all women were principled self-sufficient libertarians there would still be taxes.

But without a welfare state the taxes would, presumably, be smaller.

No, they'd just go to different people.

Ok, assuming this is true, this means there's space for money to potentially go back to men more, right?

Which men are we talking about? The ones in government sinecures, sure. I don't feel any gender solidarity with those.

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I've made the point before that women are a potent political force, but an incompetent military one

If your political coalition is dependent on tons of addled females voting for them to maintain its support, it is ALSO dependent on NEVER allowing the other side to bring organized violence against them since those same females would fold instantly.

If things get heated for real, the side that wins will absolutely positively NOT be the one that is depending on women voting for them.

So its a question of who has enough motivated men to 'force' the issue.