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Culture War Roundup for the week of July 7, 2025

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There was a commenter here who said women lacked "accountability" because they want to be able to f*** without risking being pregnant for nine months.

That was me, and as we discussed at the time that's a horrendously inaccurate and uncharitable take on what I was saying.

This is entirely typical of you. In my opinion you don't belong here and I for one will be much happier when you inevitably wear out the mods' welcome.

(And no; I won't be litigating this or anything else with you again, nor should others.)

That was me, and as we discussed at the time that's a horrendously inaccurate and uncharitable take on what I was saying.

Anyone can click through and see what you said.

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Likewise. You'll note that I was happy to volunteer those links.

And rightly so. Please keep that link and reminder on hand. It is certainly a good example of AlexanderTurok's bad faith characterizations of past arguments.

Here's what TitaniumButterfly said:

women don't want to be forced to spend nine months pregnant

Then it sounds like either they're specifically upset about the extremely rare cases of rape leading to pregnancy, or else they have an accountability problem.

I've reported his comment and yours for mischaracterization and strawmanning.

  • -20

You have taken him out of context. If you look a few posts down, you see that he also says that people already understand that men need to be held accountable. You've distorted his claim that women should be accountable just like everyone else to imply that he says that only women need to be held accountable.

You've distorted his claim that women should be accountable just like everyone else to imply that he says that only women need to be held accountable

No I didn't.

  • -15

I find it funny how they think "we're imposing another, different burden on men" somehow "cancels out" the burden they want to impose on women and means women (and me) aren't allowed to say anything about it or have a problem with it. Judging by the fact that the pro-life side can't even with abortion referenda in Kansas and Missouri, it's not a very persuasive argument.

ETA: on second thought, perhaps my original comment was too sneery and I should be arguing to understand instead, in which I'll state that from what I've seen the pro-lifers seem to have NO plan to change people's minds other than double-down on the same things they've been doing for decades. But maybe I'm just ignorant of the facts here.

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We're not going to take sides in a situation like this. People accuse other posters of misrepresenting and strawmanning them all the time. Sometimes people are misrepresenting and strawmanning other posters, but y'all need to work this out yourselves-civilly!-or let it go.

When we do intervene is when threads become pointless back and forth exchanges of "Did not!" "Did too!" Which is what this is becoming.

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We also dislike people declaring they have reported someone. "I'm telling on you!" is not any more effective or impressive here than it was in kindergarten. What is that supposed to accomplish? Put extra pressure on the mods? We can see your report. Submit your report and move on.

Apologies then, I will not do this in the future.

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