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Thank you for reminding me of that rather unpleasant experience. I would actually not like to take another go at it. Anyone wanting elaboration is welcome to read the thread.
Fair enough on the positive claim concerning meta-ethics. If you'd prefer to leave that one in incoherence, you can leave that one in incoherence.
Would you like to take a shot at your negative claim with analogy to philosophy of mathematics? Any sort of clarity or argument there?
No, I showed that my point was coherent, it is beyond me why you don't see that. It's not really my problem at this point.
Not with you, I'm afraid. @Primaprimaprima is far more pleasant to talk to, hence I am more than happy to discuss that in detail with them. You're welcome to read that thread and make of it what you will.
We can just read the comments. You never told me what your terms meant, because you couldn't. Perhaps you missed my edit back then, even though I recall doing it quickly, so I'll repeat it here just in case:
I'm a pretty pleasant guy. What have I said that is not pleasant? I think you might be confusing a pleasant conversationalist with a pleasant conversation. Most people don't like conversations where large problems with their stated positions are brought to the fore. That's fair enough. But that's probably what you find displeasing, the clear and obvious feeling in your gut that you know your position has a problem, and that you don't know what to do about it. I sympathize; I've been there. Just a piece of advice, though; thinking that you're going to be able to avoid the problem by avoiding the person who points out the problem never works. Moreover, it's unMottely.
You know, I'm a person who has been described, in this very thread as:
Consider what that means when someone actually exhausts my patience. I think that says more about you than it does about me.
After all, even the most saintly are unlikely to like you very much if you say things along the lines of:
I'm sure you think you are very pleasant, and that you are a great conversationalist. I'm sure your mother thinks you're very handsome too.
I think it works great. If I didn't have a firm commitment to not blocking anyone on this site, I would have blocked you a long time back. The next best thing is to ignore you, which is what I'm doing from now on. Being "unMottley" doesn't come at the cost of my sanity.
Reported for antagonism.
Not because it's particularly bad (it obviously isn't), but because I hold you to higher standards! You are better than that.
Thank you? What am I supposed to do now, warn myself? Temp-ban myself? I believe that the Ancient Chinese have written on the topic, but I'll leave it in the hands of the other mods.
My suggestion: Just take in onboard as constructive criticism. Look, this isn't a big deal, as so often I'm just writing what comes to mind without thinking much about it.
I was kidding, I get what you mean, and agree.
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