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As a little bit of a palate cleanser for the Annunciation shooting and Scotland
All Female Braveheart Remakechildren-with-knives fracas, I thought we could talk about the financial state of internet whoredom:Matthew Ball Xwitter Thread on OnlyFans Financials
(Mod question: If linking to a Xwitter thread, are there any standard operating procedures considering some people don't have it?)
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What actually got me to take the time to write this up was seeing this article on sports betting.
Sports betting, OnlyFans (etc.), and addiction level of marijuana use are, to me, the three horsemen of tolerated social degeneration. That these all disproportionately impact (there, I said it!) young males is all the more revealing -- society is still okay with disposing the disposables and is now more than happy to turn it into a multi-billion dollar industry.
If we could 1:1 swap every alcoholic for a marijuana addict, would that be better? I find weed a little more distasteful for some reason but it's hard for me to see it as more harmful than alcohol.
Talk to (literally- no, I am not misusing figuratively)any blue collar boss. Ask if he'd rather an alcoholic or a pot user for a new lower level hire. 100%(I am not exaggerating) will choose the alcoholic.
Talk to any cop- all of them will tell you, marijuana is a bad drug, alcoholics can continue to be functional but potheads? No way.
Pot also has mental health consequences absent from alcohol, particularly for teens.
What?!?!? This is silly
There are very few non-functional alcoholics or potheads.
Also on the scale of shitty behaviors alcoholics have worse outcomes for others and health outcomes for themselves.
I also doubt police opinions on weed smokers is anything more than "I don't care" given the actual drug users they have to interact with. But you're also American so you folk still have ridiculous takes on weed.
I am not blatantly pro weed either, I'm very against teenagers having access to cheap distillate weed pens, etc
My vibe is Europe struggles more with alcoholism and public drunken disorder since drinking is so much more normalized.
Just from a sanitation perspective there were so many more drunken buffoons peeing on the streets around me compared to the US, including women.
I could see that tempering attitudes a bit as well.
San Francisco streetshitters notwithstanding, I suspect America is far ahead of the rest of the Anglosphere in terms of disorderly conduct by regular taxpaying individuals. I've known Australians, educated women, with college degrees, holding down jobs, just piss freely in an alley rather than find a bathroom. It's insane.
Depends on how you define ‘regular tax paying’. There’s definitely a social class which works and also just pees in an alley.
That social class typically does not hold college degrees.
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That could simply be a particular American hangup about public urination. It shocks my tiny European mind when I see guys in the US getting literally arrested and charged for pissing in an alleyway, as if that is an actual crime. Similar to jaywalking, I suppose.
Not only that, in most (all?) of the US, getting caught for public urination can land you on the sex offender registry.
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