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Culture War Roundup for the week of October 6, 2025

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it could just be 'bants'. maybe he is just venting to a friend and there is some context that is snipped from the conversation that we see that makes it less bad. cancelling him has parallels to cancelling people for having misogynistic/sexist/racist comments in a whatsapp group with friends. there is an expectation of a privacy and lot of it is just people venting or memeing and not being serious.

it could just be 'bants'. maybe he is just venting to a friend and there is some context that is snipped from the conversation that we see that makes it less bad.

It could be, but it's not.

A DM conversation "leaked" where in he has this conversation with a Republican colleage in the Virginia House I believe. So this wasn't even exactly an "in house" conversation. Just straight up telling the opposition, "Hey, I think you deserve to die" like it would never or could never come back to haunt him.

Believe it or not, you are not the first person grasping at this straw.

We don’t have the context. We don’t know why Jay Jones thinks Todd and Jennifer Gilbert are “evil” and “breeding little fascists”. Going on priors, it’s probably not a very good reason, but we don’t actually know that.

Okay, this is it. Can we officially throw out the principle of charity?

Truth social is over thataway if you would like somewhere you can post without worrying about discourse norms.

"Let's not be charitable to someone who thinks the children are little fascists" strikes me as a pretty fair norm.

Are you proposing being uncharitable to Jay Jones or to other people on this forum? I don't think principle of charity ever said you had to be charitable about statements made by public figures, just about the person you are currently arguing with.

To Jay Jones.

Saying that we "don't have the context" for him doing that is giving charity where it is not warranted.

Ah, I misunderstood you then - I thought you were proposing throwing out the principle of charity for quantumfreakonomics because you thought their post was not a realistic level of naivety and thus must be bad faith.