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It boils my piss when people throw out accusations at people in the Motte in the general sense. If you're going to smear a 'not insignificant' fraction of his fellow partisans in this community as misogynists, you better have everything cut and dry or I'm going to assume you're talking shit. Name names.
That sounds unpleasant.
Her fellow partisans.
Naming names is either ban-baiting me or trying to start drama, but if you like, here are incidents where her piss is being boiled -
Here's her and sloot. Number of other comments in that thread.
Took me a while to figure it out, but here's her getting into it with 'The Mountain' guy on her previous account (you can follow her comments on his weekly posts if you like).
Here's what I thought would be the next flameout.
I would call the viewpoint that women are lesser, less agentic, less intelligent, less capable (excluding less physically strong) misogynistic. I don't think these arguments are particularly rare around here. Would you disagree with either point?
As a side note, I would have to disagree with this. Of course it's all a matter of semantics, but defining misogyny in this way implies that it's somehow immoral or hateful to make a generalization which puts women as a group in a negative light -- even if that generalization is correct.
In my view, this gives the game away. Why is it not misogynistic to observe that men are physically stronger than women? Presumably the reason is that this observation is correct - men are indeed stronger than women. It seems to me that there are other correct generalizations for which women compare unfavorably to men. At a minimum, reasonable people could reach such a conclusion. Would doing so be immoral or hateful?
It's also worth noting the double-standard in play. If someone observes that men are more prone to committing violent crime than women, it's far more tolerated by society since it puts women in a positive light compared to men.
Consider the following 2 statements:
Both are arguably true, but only one will get you labeled a "misogynist" if you say it.
So that in practice "misogyny" means "anything which is unfavorable to women"
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