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I remember on October 8th the feeling of going online and seeing people celebrating the rape and murder of Israelis. It was a complete shock, I was totally unprepared for the sheer glee in the online progressive spaces, the instantaneous "pray for Palestine" posts combined with "this is what decolonization looks like" posted approvingly under dead bodies.

Two years later I am able to be a good deal more amused than traumatized by the repulsive shenanigans of the bot army. Partly it's because I am now more aware that much of it is a bot army, a carefully coordinated effort not organic sentiment. Partly it's because compared to when our hostages were still in Gaza I can breathe more freely now.

Partly it's because it's funny. /r/worldnews had multiple users posting their analyses about how Iran has these massive stockpiles of 50,000 missiles and 5,000 launchers that they're keeping hidden in reserve, they're just gonna wait until the defense stockpiles disappear and then theyre totally gonna unleash the hell they haven't managed to until now. (It's easy to imagine them gnashing their teeth as they write this.)

Meanwhile metafilter, which is a site that after its leftist death spiral is so tiny and inactive I'm not sure it's worth deploying a bot army to, had an (Australian) user immediately saying Death to America and discourse ensuing between the people who thought that was totally fine and the people who thought that wasn't "helpful" which yielded the following gem

for what it’s worth, “death to X” is an idiomatic phrase in the Arab/Persian world that just means “down with X” or even just casually “frickin’ X,” not a literal call for everyone in a given country to be executed, in much the same way that English-language “sucks” is no longer regarded as having homophobic implications as an idiomatic usage

I know this kind of stuff would have infuriated me two years ago. It would have made me so angry and depressed. And now I can't help it, I laughed out loud reading that comment. Wow, it truly is possible to be this level of distilled stupid.

That doesn't mean I wish well on these people — I don't, I think they're disgusting. I've had a post brewing in me for two years about how I find it so much easier to sympathize with some terrorist in Gaza who is attached to home and his family and hates me, then with some keyboard warrior in the west with a moral compass directed straight up his ass. The terrorist may also be wishing death upon me (and attempting to enact it) but there's something more morally clean about him.


We've had a much quieter week than expected (thanks to all those thousands of launchers the iranians are stockpiling for the right moment). There's at least 1-3 sirens a day but often not more than that, where I live (other areas of the country have much more because they're more in the flight path of debris). The very beginning of the war had the most, up and down and up and down and up and down like I described, by it's tapered off pretty dramatically.

The houthis don't appear to have joined in with their Iranian friends at all this time around. Hezbollah did join in, which has pissed off the non Hezbollah Lebanese enough we might, maybe, perhaps, if I'm being crazily optimistic, actually see some significant meaningful backlash against them there.

I've been working from home. We are hosting my siblings-in-law who don't have access to a bomb shelter near them and have a newborn, which comes with the expected tensions but has been ok overall.

My poor team lead is Muslim so he gets to have the rocket induced sleep deprivation and also fasting for Ramadan. At the beginning of the week he told me between those two things his brain was barely functioning, but as the rocket fire has decreased we've had more peaceful nights and he's been doing better, as have we all.

It's still uncomfortable and hard, my kids still struggle with waking up to sirens, I know people who lost their homes, I've read about the people who died although I don't know any personally. But I go online and read about all the dead my government has been allegedly covering up and it comforts me, I like not living in the alternate reality these people are living in.

Unlike many many people online who seem to know a tremendous amount about all sorts of things (so many bombs have hit us and been covered up so effectively that no one who actually lives here knows about them — but these people magically do) I know almost nothing. Just the daily experience here, and hoping things turn out okay.

Hope everyone here is ok as well.

Are we supposed to feel sorry for the people who more than anyone else brought this on themselves - or am I misunderstanding your post? Because polls consistently show that Israelis are the only ones who support this war, and also that they dont give a shit about Iranian civilians. The former makes sense, because this war is for Israels benefit only. For 2 years now we have seen videos of Israelis gleefully committing warcrimes, and then, posting them online. We have seen people take their kids to block food from entering into Gaza and arrange conferences about buying and settling in Gaza land. We have seen soldiers mass rape a prisoner, and then seen those same soldiers be paraded around as heroes. The foremost jewish zionist congressman in America wants to nuke Gaza.

There is no group in modern America who has had an easier ride when it comes to PR than Israel. We are talking iron-clad bipartisan support to the point where both parties forced through the sale of TikTok. Nearly every major media was stacked full of zionist who would bend stories to present Israel in the best possible light, and that was before Ellison started buying everything up. And after all this we are still supposed to feel sorry for you? Have anyone in the Israeli side considered asking their countrymen to not behave as out of control violent barbarians in order to get more compassion?

Israel intelligence agencies literally used a sitting US senator as an asset to manipulate the president.

WSJ: To help make the case on Iran, Graham traveled several times to Israel in recent weeks, meeting with members of the country’s intelligence agency. “They’ll tell me things our own government won’t tell me,” he said. He spoke with Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu, coaching him on how to lobby the president for action.

https://x.com/katiadoyl/status/2030126333636809191

This is in the wall street journal, they don't even try to hide it. And why would they? They make it clear they're the king, Israel speaks and the west listens. Many of our politicians are actively training with foreign spies to control American politics and they're flaunting it.

Every once in a while they go oops and say the quiet part out a little too loud (like Rubio and Johnson admitting that Israel pushed us into the war before now trying to claim the opposite) but it's barely disguised. And if this is what they're public about, just imagine all the things happening in the shadows.

This is in the wall street journal, they don't even try to hide it. And why would they? They make it clear they're the king, Israel speaks and the west listens. Many of our politicians are actively training with foreign spies to control American politics and they're flaunting it.

What exactly is your objection? That Israel attempts to influence the US government? That it lobbies friendly members of the American legislature to lobby the US president? That it spies on people? That it uses that information to improve its influence efforts?

I really would like to know exactly what you believe Israel is doing wrong here and why.

Certainly one could make the case that countries shouldn't try to lobby or influence the governments of other countries. Do you share that view?

Do you believe it's normal for sitting politicians to collude with foreign spy agencies, including access to classified information that their own domestic intelligence won't share (or maybe can't share, we're just assuming that Israeli intelligence isn't giving any fake information to Lindsey Graham to manipulate him towards Israeli interests after all) in order to manipulate the feds?

I'm not sure I would call that normal lobbying.

Do you believe it's normal for sitting politicians to collude with foreign spy agencies

Not in the US. Here is the definition of "collude"

cooperate in a secret or unlawful way in order to deceive or gain an advantage over others.

Now kindly answer my questions:

  1. What exactly is your objection? That Israel attempts to influence the US government? That it lobbies friendly members of the American legislature to lobby the US president? That it spies on people? That it uses that information to improve its influence efforts?

  2. Certainly one could make the case that countries shouldn't try to lobby or influence the governments of other countries. Do you share that view?

  3. Are you claiming that Israel has done something unlawful? If so, exactly what law was broken? (I won't ask if you believe Israel did something secret, since you said "they don't even try to hide it"

I'm trying to understand your position here, because I strongly suspect that you don't actually have a principled objection to Israel's conduct.

Not him

What exactly is your objection? That Israel attempts to influence the US government?

Yes, especially in ways that are obviously detrimental to the citizens of the United States, and beneficial to the citizens of Israel.

That it lobbies friendly members of the American legislature to lobby the US president?

Yes. Do it yourself. Send your own lobbiests to argue on their own merits. Members of the American legislature should be doing things that benefit the citizens of America, not the citizens of Israel.

That it spies on people?

Yes. Don't spy on us.

That it uses that information to improve its influence efforts?

Yes. Again, American politicians should be acting for the American people. Not getting (((influenced))) to help the Israeli people.

Certainly one could make the case that countries shouldn't try to lobby or influence the governments of other countries. Do you share that view?

Yes. Leave other counties alone. Self determination is a virtue.

Are you claiming that Israel has done something unlawful? If so, exactly what law was broken? (I won't ask if you believe Israel did something secret, since you said "they don't even try to hide it"

No laws have been broken, but that doesn't mean it's okay. Given you post here, there are good odds you lean right, thus, there are good odds you find many practices of your society amoral, which are not illegal.

Do you find drag queen-story hour at the library upsetting? Or 12 year olds being put on puberty blockers against the wishes of one of their parents? Those things aren't specifically illegal, so by this logic you can't have a problem with it lol.

Yes, especially in ways that are obviously detrimental to the citizens of the United States, and beneficial to the citizens of Israel.

Ok, so here's the question. It was reported that Saudia Arabia's senior royalty repeatedly lobbied Donald Trump to attack Iran. How many posts have you made complaining about this?

American politicians should be acting for the American people. Not getting (((influenced))) to help the Israeli people.

So I take you object to Jewish Americans and Christian Zionists lobbying the US government to take pro-Israel action?

No laws have been broken, but that doesn't mean it's okay.

Perhaps not, but the accusation on the table was that Israel engaged in lobbying which was either secret or illegal. It seems that accusation was false.

Do you find drag queen-story hour at the library upsetting? Or 12 year olds being put on puberty blockers against the wishes of one of their parents? Those things aren't specifically illegal, so by this logic you can't have a problem with it lol.

Please show me where I stated or implied that if it's not illegal, then it's okay. Please QUOTE me.

TIA.

How many posts have you made complaining about this?

One now! I dislike this. Fuck off, do your own dirty work if you want it done.

So I take you object to Jewish Americans and Christian Zionists lobbying the US government to take pro-Israel action?

Yes. Do your own dirty work if you want it done. As they used to say on 4chan, "not your personal army".

I am also opposed to a hypothetical extremely powerful and influential Thai-americans lobbying America to get involved in their border disputes with Cambodia. The American military isn't a tool for various other governments to settle scores, it's to keep the American people safe. My safety has not been improved here.

The accusation on the table

That wasn't me so take it up with him. I think my views are quite internally consistent.

Please QUOTE me.

I wasn't claiming any laws were broken, so take it up with the other guy. I was just responding to your question.

You ended your comment I originally responded to with " I strongly suspect that you don't actually have a principled objection to Israel's conduct."

I have now demonstrated my principled objection to Israeli conduct.

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