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In the previous thread, I got some pushback for suggesting that not only did the US strike the Iranian school in Minab, killing 170 children or something like that, but perhaps it did so intentionally (or at least without remorse for the possible consequences of erroneous targeting). I admit that wasn't fully sincere. I realize that, even morals aside, there is no perceived military value in bombing children, at least not for the US (I do think Israelis may target children of IRGC officers out of their usual Bronze Age blood feud sentiment, Oct 7, Gaza and all, seen enough of their remarks to this effect; but then again they don't operate Tomahawks).
Well now the question on it having been an American strike appears settled. As for the intent – it's not so straightforward:
Does it matter if there was no intent if the United States, as of now, also has a revealed preference to not bother with minimizing such risks, in favor of «lethality» and some zany Judeo-Christian nationalism courtesy the power-tripping macho TV host Pete Hegseth? I believe it does, but marginally; about as much as those girls matter to Lethal Pete. I rest my case.
More to the point. It's remarkable that there's so little discussion of contemporary historical events on here. I won't criticize anyone, be the change you want etc.; but what we are seeing is pretty astonishing from the culture war standpoint. Could someone like Pete be imaginable as the Secretary of War – no, Defense – in 2023? 2019, even? 2016? It looks as if the politically dominant culture of the United States changed overnight. Does everyone just like it too much to find the change worth commenting on?
Those now shrugging their shoulders at civilian casualties likely did not do the same when Hamas killed some civilians on October 7th. I do wonder how much selective empathy is going on.
I think this is sophism. And to play nice with the rules here, I’ll elaborate as far as to say that obviously terrorists launching a sneak attack on a civilian festival during a time of peace is different from a missile accidentally hitting a civilian target in the fog of war. Obviously.
Why would it be bad to launch a sneak attack on soldiers at a festival? Remember, you can’t say “because of the civilians present”, because apparently we don’t care about civilians in war. Neither can we use the “fog of war” excuse, because it was our first enty into the war with a target of our choice. And neither can we say “in times of peace”, because we were negotiating with Iran in peace, and were not at war. My point here, of course, is to draw a comparison between the 150 or so we killed (does not deserve empathy?), and whatever happened on October 7th (somehow deserves empathy?).
I just think this is sophism. You can break down each event into constituent parts and assert an equivalence but everybody casually understands the difference.
The Palestinians sent war fighters to attack kidnap and rape a civilian festival. They did this proudly.
The US attacked the leaders of a hostile country after negotiations broke down. In the process of striking that country’s military targets a school was bombed, in the fog of war, because it was next to a military target, which both sides are now denying responsibility for.
Not sorry, not the same, not remotely the same. There is no moral equivalence between terrorism and accidents. There is no moral equivalence between evil regimes that want to kill us and the leader of the free world wanting to kill evil regimes.
There is not evidence of rape, though there is evidence that Israelis rape Palestinian prisoners; negotiations had not broken down according to the Omani mediator; Iran was never hostile to us; the school was no closer to the military target than the soldiers were close to the festival-goers
I do believe there is an evil regime trying to get Americans killed, trying to kill civilians, and trying to make the world less safe. IMO that regime is the Israeli regime. They want us dying like we did in Iraq for them.
I just can’t take this credibly, I think you’ve been propagandized honestly, I know that every claim involving Israel is hotly contested but if you think all evidence of rape committed by terrorists who kidnapped civilians is a priori implausible I would at least expect you to admit such an implausible frame.
The Iranian regime was founded on hostility to America. They fund Hamas and Hezbollah, they chant Death to America, they support Russia and China, they are one of our number one enemies. I don’t even know what you could mean
That would make them hostile to Israel, which is not America.
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