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A weird bit of culture that might be CW adjacent: The mainly but not completely female Asians/Whites/browns trying to be white passoids are not doing ok. (I assume some non-whites are also suffering here; but they are not as obvious.)
Part of it is conservative centered, mar a lago face and such, but a lot of it seems to cover the whole right to center left range of the political spectrum (I don't know any true Not Blue leftists with cosmetic surgery, maybe it's too bourgeois for them) but it's hitting the conservativ-ish women from age 21-40 demo like the spanish flu. Not a single female trump voter I know hasn't had a major cosmetic procedure; the type where you are laid up for at least a week, and a majority of the normie democrats are right there with them.
What the fuck is going on there? At least you could make an attempt at having the previous weird looking to me beauty standard through exercise; the current one seems to be "I want to look like a starving Ethiopian on a natgeo cover but with big fat punched in the face lips and cheek bones that have been displaced 2 parallels higher on my face than nature provided".
Does anyone actually like this?
No women I know have had cosmetic work done. Well, not major stuff, maybe some small procedures that wouldn't necessarily be more widely known, I don't really know.
I remember when tattoos, energy drinks, long hair on males, and cosmetic surgery were all regarded as a bit unseemly; now all of them are more or less socially acceptable. I suspect what you're seeing is much higher rates of approval of this stuff.
I see enough lip filler in the UK to fill a swimming pool. God, don't get me started on the jaundice-tier bronzing and fake tans.
Turkey teeth as well?
I was really struggling to figure out what possibly could be the context behind you replying to me with "turkey teeth?". Did you mean teeth done in Turkey (and not teeth on a literal turkey)? Yup, that's common enough, but I don't find overly white teeth repulsive. Hell, I've been accused of/admired for getting my teeth done there. Brits really can't deny the stereotype here, I just have decent teeth without taking especially good care of them.
Personally, I hate the Turkey teeth look almost as much as lip filler. People cutting about like they've a mouth full of bathroom tile.
I'm not saying I like them, but now that I think about it, the examples that Google turns up are rare. I think I've only seen one dude with perfect pearly whites with even edges in my entire time up there.
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