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Culture War Roundup for the week of April 6, 2026

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what would it take for you to admit this war was a mistake?

Why won't you answer this simple question?

It has now been 29 days since you said that the war will basically be wrapped up in three weeks.

Is it even possible for you to admit that the war was a mistake, or do you believe that everything "achieved" so far has already made it worth it regardless of how it ends? If so, you should just say so, so that we can all update accordingly.

In the post you linked I said five weeks, and it’s been six, so can I say “same difference potato potato” or do I need to explain what someone really means when they say “just a second”?

Is it even possible for you to admit that the war was a mistake

Because you seemingly phrased this question such that I’m actually irrational and refusing to recognize the truth (“that the war was a mistake”) as though my zealotry is blinding my eyes. Next I can say “nothing can ever convince me” and you can all roll your eyes and write me off? Is it possible for you to admit that the war is going well?

Next I can say “nothing can ever convince me”

Is this the case, then?

Is it possible for you to admit that the war is going well?

Sure. For example:

  • Iran hands over the uranium and pinkie promises not to make a nuke
  • the Ayatollah steps down and the Iranians make a new thank you USA
  • Iran renounces support for the Houthis, Hamas, and Hezbollah in word and in deed

Those are the kind of things that would make me say the war was a success. Now it's your turn!

Considering that the war is going well something pretty dramatic would have to change for it to become a failure. But for the sake of argument let's see...

  • Iran starts consistently winning skirmishes and engagements, sinking ships, killing hundreds of American soldiers, etc.
  • Saudi, UAE, Bahrain, Kuwait, et al. start crying uncle and start begging for America to exit / surrender to Iran
  • Iran acquires nuclear weapons
  • Iran tolls the Strait of Hormuz
  • The Abraham Accords are abandoned and Israel reverts to being a pariah state

I find it a little amusing that most of these would constitute things being worse than the status quo ante. It seems that if tomorrow Donald announces that the war is over and everyone goes home and we end up where we were before all this mess except Iran spent some missiles and replaced the Ayatollah you'd consider this a smashing success.

I find it a little amusing that most of these would constitute things being worse than the status quo ante.

You asked for things which would be a failure. Why is it amusing that failure is worse than the status quo ante?

Because prosecuting a war at some cost of blood and treasure only to end up with the status quo ante is a failure.

Yes? You asked what a failure would look like and Shakes answered, why would a failure not look like a failure?

Shakes' position is that the status quo ante is a success.

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