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Culture War Roundup for the week of May 11, 2026

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Getting your dog fixed doesn't stop them from humping. My female dog, even after being spayed, was still super into humping stuff.

Having had a neighbor who bred dogs when I was younger. Some dogs will continue to be humpers even post-neutering/spaying but it definitely reduces the baseline tendency by a lot.

Surely it helps, no? Part of why it was so shocking to me is I'd been around a fair amount of dogs -- my immediate family had two, and I don't recall ever seeing either of them do that, not even to inanimate objects, much less guests. My extended family lives on a farm, and always had 2-4 dogs, and I don't remember seeing this among them, either.

I'm checking with Google now and it insists this is indeed normal for dogs of all breeds and ages. Clearly Google is not familiar with the level of reality-warping power behind the Disney world I was in, because this definitely did not happen, as I remember being repeatedly shocked and repulsed when leaving our bubble and seeing how the heathens' pets behaved.

It’s all about training. An infuriatingly large (and IME growing) percentage of dog owners absolutely do not give the slightest fuck about disciplining their dogs. They don’t know what they’re doing and have no interest in learning; in many cases they don’t even seem to know it’s possible. They either luck into a naturally obedient one, or, uh, don’t. Having grown up with dogs I find it extremely frustrating.

I'm certain its got nothing to do with fucking and everything to do with dominance. My tiny female dog used to hump my big male dog, and she tried to hump the car hubs too. Its not like they didn't fuck, but the leadup seemed to be entirely irrelevant.

It's funny. I've interacted and lived with alot of dogs, and I've never seen them do what people(and google) apparently consider common.

Also, I think people over-rely on spay and neutering to correct bad behavior. It really doesn't. The most aggressive and protective dog I've seen was nuetered due to being cryptorchid.