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Culture War Roundup for the week of June 8, 2026

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A Down syndrome child is such a massive sink of resources that it DOES (if not absolutely preclude) make it much more difficult to have another child afterwards.

As for the "rich tapestry"... an afternoon being subject to torture is a richer tapestry of experience than taking a nap, but all things considered, I'd take the nap every time.

Waiting for a promotion opportunity can feel like torture too. How much easier might life be if your boss unfortunately, unexpectedly passed away when you're the obvious candidate to replace him? Or if that competitor who's making business hard just vanished one day, not to be heard from again? It'd probably be really good for your kids, too.

Yes, and as long as we're talking about enriching experiences, those who engage in corporate scheming and assassination are, in fact, living richer lives than those who just drudge on waiting until natural aging frees up a spot for them.

I can live a perfectly functional life even if I don’t get that promotion. The same is not true when it comes to raising a child with special needs.

Siblings of a Down syndrome child will also be affected. They receive less parental attention, are forced to grow up faster than their peers, and carry heavier emotional burdens for years. The costs are not trivial.

The analogy reads like backwards reasoning. You believe all abortion is murder, so you retroactively justify keeping the downs baby despite the trade-offs for the child and the rest of the family.

To me, the great downside of a child with down's syndrome is the worry that no one will take care of them if the parents die first. That they will end their life in misery, pain, neglect, and crying for their parents. Normal siblings can help guard against that scenario, but that's passing a heavy responsibility to someone else without their adult consent.

Important point! And I've seen such cases personally, where the parents had to feel "fortunate" if they outlive their disabled child. I'll never be happy about an abortion, but sometimes you only have bad choices.

Surely any business would welcome their competitor randomly exiting the market. This seems like an unambiguously great piece of luck for a business.

If you're not going to get a promotion unless you murder your boss, you are better off changing companies. Obviously there's no equivalent of that in the analogy... so you're not getting that promotion (or having that next child)

I don't find early-term abortion tantamount to murder, so the analogy really doesn't convince me.

If you want to argue that's it's immoral to abort a down syndrome baby, go ahead - but what you're doing is arguing that the parents are missing out, in fact impoverishing themselves, by not having a disabled child.

I'm not. I'm arguing that they're missing out, in fact impoverishing themselves, by not having and loving every child God gives them.

You're not making the case very well. In fact it appears that they are impoverishing themselves in every way other than "being good Christians" by piling on a perma-burden on themselves.

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