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and related to @MayorofOysterville s point
Conversely, Stasi and KGB had more success with honeypots because of the inverse. As a side effect of centrally planned economy, intelligence service work was one the high prestige occupation with great benefits in the country (rank, remuneration, housing, access to high-end party stores) and ability to travel (buy Western items that were rare due to central planning). Political indoctrination perhaps helped, but it was one of the materially better things to do.
I don't know how modern China compares.
Granted, my understanding is that honeypots were secondary. Most infamous intelligence coups were due to personal ideological motivation (Kim Philby, Rosenbergs), money (Ames, Hanssen), personal workplace grudges (surprisingly many of the Soviet defectors) or combinations thereof (Stig Bergling).
I think this might be counterproductive. I think maybe a 7/10 can fly under the radar, but is still cute enough to get a guy's attention. Then have her do an emotional spearfishing of the target with the equivalent of a psychologist with the target's psychological profile on their lap speaking into their earpiece. She can be whatever the target needs; smart enough to listen to and understand his work, or be comforting while his wife ignores him, show possible acceptance of their fetish etc.
I think that's how we see a lot of these chinese honeypots come through with cute looks rather than stunning looks that would just draw attention ('why are you working in engineering again?'). For the 'hard mode' ones anyway. Pretty easy to drop a superhot escort in at someone's hotel bar and wire up their hotel room.
Apparently the French, Russians, Chinese and practically anyone not from the Western sphere are still running them. The French are doing it... well probably because they're French.
Yeah, my own view is that if you had a very attractive young woman showing up to fawn all over a guy, then the immediate suspicion by his wife and social circle is "gold digger". Whereas attractive but not model-quality younger businesswoman can plausbily be explained "Sorry, honey, have to take a client to dinner" or whatever, and it allows the relationship to build gradually.
You can't just flash your tits at a guy and then go "so anyways what is your top-secret project about?"*, you need to build trust and an emotional connection, and that takes time. He has to believe it's all his idea and it's mutual attraction.
*Well, I'd hope not, but heaven knows it could happen with some.
Pretty sure that's the technique of choice against young Navy/Army guys.
Well yeah, young guys in the military. Just have a pulse is often enough there 😂
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I might suggest a rather different reason for this. "Cuteness" is very psychologically disarming.
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Yeah, I think few men can resist the attention of a young woman who is cute (but not stunning) and who manifests strong romantic interest in them. Probably it doesn't hurt that a lot of these honeytrap agents are trained to be great in bed.
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"Mademoiselle, we would like you to sleep with a foreign politician."
"Already on it! On y va!"
"And listen to him talk about his work."
"Je suis obligée?"
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