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Culture War Roundup for the week of May 1, 2023

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How can I trust that they have any deeply held convictions or principles at all, if the sentiment comes and goes that easily?

Why would you trust that?

In my estimation the vast majority are largely amoral and just go with the flow. My wife is mostly amoral for example, she doesn't have moral opinions on almost anything. She isn't stupid or malevolent, she just doesn't care.

When I want to talk about some moral issue she just zones out because she gets bored. She wants to talk about what happened at her work or what she is planning for the garden or the baby room.

Very few people have moral opinions as anything more than accessories or as part of cheerleading for their team. People do get incredibly passionate about cheering/booing though.

Based and error-theory pilled

This is one of the reasons why I'm of the opinion that democracy sucks at scale.

I'm embarrassed to say it took me until I was 30 to de-quokka and finally realise that people were voting for what was good for themselves and not what was good for society.

My wife is mostly amoral for example, she doesn't have moral opinions on almost anything. She isn't stupid or malevolent, she just doesn't care.

When I want to talk about some moral issue she just zones out because she gets bored.

Does that have any impact on how you view your relationship with her? Or are you more like, "I didn't get with her because of her political opinions, so why would I care if she doesn't have any"?

It impacts my view on her a bit but not the relationship, it might even be healthy, we complement each other.

How do you trust then that if the winds of sentiment change she won’t peace out as she has no hiding underlining principles?

I don't think (stated) underlying principles are in any way trustworthy. I believe in people conforming to their nature and self interest.