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Quality Contributions Report for April 2023

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These are mostly chronologically ordered, but I have in some cases tried to cluster comments by topic so if there is something you are looking for (or trying to avoid), this might be helpful. Here we go:


Quality Contributions to the Main Motte

@ymeskhout:

@gattsuru:

@johnfabian:

Contributions for the week of April 3, 2023

@Soriek:

@FiveHourMarathon:

@grendel-khan:

@ymeskhout:

Recognition Diplomacy

@naraburns:

@07mk:

@FiveHourMarathon:

Contributions for the week of April 10, 2023

@HlynkaCG:

@TracingWoodgrains:

@FlyingLionWithABook:

@Soriek:

@RandomRanger:

Transitive Reasoning

@Lewyn:

@self_made_human:

@roystgnr:

@RandomRanger:

@TracingWoodgrains:

Contributions for the week of April 17, 2023

@gattsuru:

@ControlsFreak:

@faul_sname:

Identity Politics

@throwawaygendertheorist:

@RenOS:

@SophisticatedHillbilly:

@FCfromSSC:

Contributions for the week of April 24, 2023

@naraburns:

@faul_sname:

@Dean:

@self_made_human:

Discriminating Taste

@RenOS:

@Unsaying:

@Esperanza:

@FCfromSSC:

@MonkeyWithAMachinegun:

@laxam:

@DaseindustriesLtd:

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I keep coming back to the @Lewyn post and I think this is a fundamental blind spot of a lot of social change. It’s fine on paper because paper ideas don’t have to account for knock on effects that affect other people or systems.

On paper one guy in his twenties transitioning isn’t a big deal. Let him do what he wants, right? But then he’s divorcing his wife with his child (given the ages I’m assuming under 5). So a single mother with a fatherless child. The statistics on what happens to fatherless children aren’t great. More likely to live in poverty, more likely to commit crimes, less likely to get a degree, and if the child is female more likely to end up a single mother herself. So he’s effectively diminished the life of his own child just by choosing to divorce them. What the child will make of daddy getting a divorce to become a woman is unknown, although I think the rejection of being the child of divorce itself is a problem. Being rejected because daddy would rather be a girl than be with the child is going to be harder than that.