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PaperclipPerfector  10mo ago (text post)   3420 thread views

Small-Scale Question Sunday for June 25, 2023

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Update to this post: https://www.themotte.org/post/498/smallscale-question-sunday-for-may-21/101809?context=8#context

where I wanted advice on getting an engagement ring for my girlfriend. I have since proposed before getting the ring (as planned), it went wonderfully, and we are now engaged. After looking at a bunch of examples together and honing in on concepts and features she found appealing (turns out she doesn't simply like flowers, which I already knew, but she really really really likes flowers), we settled on this ring

https://cms-media.taylorandhart.com/2021/11/11194729/Round_white_diamond_pear_diamond_halo_flower_engagement_ring-1000x1000.jpg

from Taylor and Hart. It uses diamonds, but they use lab-grown diamonds, so I'm happy with that. We considered substituting some colored gems in the flower, but then there's also leaves which would look a bit weird if we made them green, but would also look weird if we colored the rest of the flower but left them white. Most importantly, my now-fiance thinks it's really pretty exactly how it is, so we don't want to change things in case it accidentally ends up looking worse.

Thank you for everyone who offered advice, regardless of whether I ended up using it or not.

Congratulations. May you have many long and happy years together.

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Mazel Tov! Here's to the happy couple!

Always awesome when you hit the nail on the head with any gift, especially something as symbolic as an engagement ring. I hope the proposal was a great experience as well.

I went the route of using my mom's stone reset in a band to my wife's taste while my mom moved to a bigger rock. Hoping to continue the cycle of saving a fuckton of money/treating my wife once retirement is lined up with my son when he gets engaged.

Congratulations!

Congrats!

Congratulations! Happy for you! Marriage is the best decision I ever made.

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