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Culture War Roundup for the week of September 12, 2022

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How many of you know zombies? I believe that’s the appropriate term. I’ve in the past few months become aware of a few friends who never really recovered from COVID. They work from home sometimes at decent salaries and few hours. But a lot of their life energy has been taken from them.

I visited a friend a month ago. And I woke him up from being a zombie. I got him to clean his smoker and make wings. I feel like this was something happening before COVID. People lose their life energy but I think COVID and some of the culture war fights have sapped a decent amount of people of what I would call life energy. And I think as a society we want these people reintegrated.

I know (of) two people with fairly severe long COVID that still haven't recovered. I don't know anyone like what you described. Then again, we didn't have a very severe lockdown in Sweden.

I'm not sure if I know anyone who has died from COVID, or has mentioned they have a long COVID (from an ordinary bout of COVID, at least), or where I would have a reason otherwise suspect it. I know one guy who had a really serious case of COVID and went to the hospital for it and I'm not sure that they have fully recovered, but haven't really inquired to it, either, since I don't know them all that well personally. I don't know anyone who I have a has had a serious vaccine injury either.

Of course some old and sickly people in my nearby sphere have died and there was one younger person who died an unexplained death, but they also had extreme mental issues that might have contributed.

I actually know of three people but one guy recovered after 6 months or so and is now mostly fine although he complains of being tired but he muddles along.

Neither of the two i know that are still sick had super serious infections, it just didn't really go away and has kept reflaring when they exert themselves. One is a guy in his early 60s and the other a woman in her mind 30s. Both are fit and otherwise healthy.

The one person I know that died was a distant relative of mine in her late 80s with terminal cancer and COPD. I'm not joking.

If it weren't for the 2-3 with lingering symptoms, COVID might as well not have existed for me as disease any different from the flu.