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I find 480p porn to be unwatchable, and really only tolerate 720p if it's something special.
Sure, people are doing "new stuff" but camera technology and bandwidth capabilities alone have led to a pretty good treadmill. I haven't tried VR porn but a friend that has gave it rave reviews, so that's another full cycle there.
Personally, I think I'm going to limit my use of my Oculus to BeatSaber, I just can't picture myself wearing a heavy headset with an exposed dong. It's too dystopian.
I honesty thought this was some VR porn or masterbation reference. Scrolling down I gather it is some innocuous VR device or game. They wasted a great VR porn name.
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Haha. I have not tried an Oculus with VR porn, but just tried with using a mouse to scroll where the view is pointed. I don't really see the point of it. There's almost always only one view I want to see, which is the view where the entire woman is in the camera. I don't want to look off to the side. Maybe that'd work if the VR device had a way of simulating you, so it could feel like you're having sex while looking elsewhere, but for now I don't think we have that.
I'd like to think that, too -- however, allow me to introduce you to the field of teledildonics...
Well I'm not too surprised that exists. But let's see if it catches on. I think there might have been a talk on the Motte a few years ago (I think) about how male sex toys will never achieve mainstream popularity, or even just sub-mainstream.
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We truly are living in the Jetsons' world, huh?
I still would have preferred a flying car though.
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“You will beat your saber, and you will be happy.”
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