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Helen Andrews and the Great Feminization

https://www.compactmag.com/article/the-great-feminization/

Some excerpts:

Wokeness is not a new ideology, an outgrowth of Marxism, or a result of post-Obama disillusionment. It is simply feminine patterns of behavior applied to institutions where women were few in number until recently.

Possibly because, like most people, I think of feminization as something that happened in the past before I was born. When we think about women in the legal profession, for example, we think of the first woman to attend law school (1869), the first woman to argue a case before the Supreme Court (1880), or the first female Supreme Court Justice (1981). A much more important tipping point is when law schools became majority female, which occurred in 2016, or when law firm associates became majority female, which occurred in 2023. When Sandra Day O’Connor was appointed to the high court, only 5 percent of judges were female. Today women are 33 percent of the judges in America and 63 percent of the judges appointed by President Joe Biden.

Everything you think of as wokeness involves prioritizing the feminine over the masculine: empathy over rationality, safety over risk, cohesion over competition. Other writers who have proposed their own versions of the Great Feminization thesis, such as Noah Carl or Bo Winegard and Cory Clark, who looked at feminization’s effects on academia, offer survey data showing sex differences in political values. One survey, for example, found that 71 percent of men said protecting free speech was more important than preserving a cohesive society, and 59 percent of women said the opposite.

The field that frightens me most is the law. All of us depend on a functioning legal system, and, to be blunt, the rule of law will not survive the legal profession becoming majority female. The rule of law is not just about writing rules down. It means following them even when they yield an outcome that tug at your heartstrings or runs contrary to your gut sense of which party is more sympathetic.

A feminized legal system might resemble the Title IX courts for sexual assault on college campuses established in 2011 under President Obama. These proceedings were governed by written rules and so technically could be said to operate under the rule of law. But they lacked many of the safeguards that our legal system holds sacred, such as the right to confront your accuser, the right to know what crime you are accused of, and the fundamental concept that guilt should depend on objective circumstances knowable by both parties, not in how one party feels about an act in retrospect. These protections were abolished because the people who made these rules sympathized with the accusers, who were mostly women, and not with the accused, who were mostly men.

Women can sue their bosses for running a workplace that feels like a fraternity house, but men can’t sue when their workplace feels like a Montessori kindergarten.

And we wonder why men are dropping out of the workforce/university...

The problem is not that women are less talented than men or even that female modes of interaction are inferior in any objective sense. The problem is that female modes of interaction are not well suited to accomplishing the goals of many major institutions. You can have an academia that is majority female, but it will be (as majority-female departments in today’s universities already are) oriented toward other goals than open debate and the unfettered pursuit of truth. And if your academia doesn’t pursue truth, what good is it?

I found the whole essay quite interesting and also somewhat obvious in that 'oh I should've realized this and put it together before' sense. I read somewhere else on twitter that you could track the origins of civil rights/student activism to women gaining full entry to universities in America, as opposed to just chaperoned/'no picnicking out together' kind of limited access. Deans and admin no longer felt they could punish and control like when it was a male environment, plus young men behave very differently when there are sexually available women around. So there's also a potential element of weakened suppression due to fear of female tears and young men simping for women, along with the long-term demographic change element.

Though I suspect it may be more multi-factorial than that, with the youth bulge and a gradual weakening of the old order. A man had to make the decision to let women into universities after all.

I also find Helen Andrews refreshing in that she's not stuck in the 'look at me I'm a woman who's prepared to be anti-feminist, I'm looking for applause and clicks' mould, she makes the reasons behind her article quite clear:

Because, after all, I am not just a woman. I am also someone with a lot of disagreeable opinions, who will find it hard to flourish if society becomes more conflict-averse and consensus-driven. I am the mother of sons, who will never reach their full potential if they have to grow up in a feminized world. I am—we all are—dependent on institutions like the legal system, scientific research, and democratic politics that support the American way of life, and we will all suffer if they cease to perform the tasks they were designed to do.

Another idea that occurred to me is that the committee that drafted the United Nations Declaration of Human Rights was chaired by Eleanor Roosevelt, FDR's wife. The UN Declaration of Human Rights was instrumental in establishing what we now understand as progressivism. That piece of international law, (really the origin of 'international law' as we understand it today, beyond just the customary law of embassies) directly led to the Refugee Convention of 1951 that has proven quite troublesome for Europe's migrant crisis, it introduced the principle of non-refoulement. It also inspired the Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Racial Discrimination (1965):

Each State Party undertakes to encourage, where appropriate, integrationist multiracial organizations and movements and other means of eliminating barriers between races

Shall declare an offence punishable by law all dissemination of ideas based on racial superiority or hatred, incitement to racial discrimination

Sounds pretty woke! Note that states don't necessarily follow through on international law or sign up with it fully in the first place: Israel, America, Russia and so on routinely ignore these kinds of bodies in the foreign policy sphere. The Conventions and Committees are feminine in a certain sense in that they can be ignored without fear of violence, unlike an army of men. Nevertheless, their urging and clamouring is real and does have an effect, the UN Human Rights Commission helped get sanctions on apartheid South Africa.

To some extent international law could be considered an early feminized field, or perhaps it was born female. Are there any other feminized fields we can easily think of? Therapists, HR and school teachers come to mind, though that seems more recent.

Ironically the one civil institution that is becoming less 'female' is The church.

It does make sense, in that any churches that take doctrine seriously are going to have certain advice like "wives submit to your husband" and "be modest and demure" and "it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in church" (1 Corinthians 14:34-35).

And so the Church is like the one place where "minimal restraint on females' decision-making" is NOT a core ideal baked into every other rule they follow. And where the idea that men and women are different (and that's just fine) is part of the very founding text from Book 1. "Male and female he created them." (Genesis 1:27). Its like page 2 of the freakin' book.

Related note, it seems like women are less comfortable using AI in general, and particularly in the business context.

THAT is going to have massive downstream effects if AIs do become half as ubiquitous as the boosters (and the investment levels) suggest. Not only are female-dominated jobs probably more prone to AI takeover, they're less likely to use the AI to augment their performance in the meantime.

And then, other recent studies find that women find leadership roles in business emotionally depleting, anxiety-inducing. Even when painted over with the language of "gender norms," the raw conclusion of the study is that women in leadership don't handle pressure well on a personal level.

Deviating from gender norms made the women feel incompetent or anxious, they reported.

As a result, the women who engaged in more assertive behaviors often felt depleted, overwhelmed by their workload and more withdrawn as a whole.

Interestingly, men in the study did not experience any stress over these gender expectations.

Basically, if you take the gender studies approach seriously, then you have to suggest that we upend the entirety of society's notion of gender roles in order to make some small subset of women who become business leaders more comfortable with their jobs, rather than suggesting that these women could find positions that don't actively degrade their mental health, as an easy solution.

Huge contortions to avoid the conclusion that males tend to have psychological traits better suited for leadership roles, in line with the entirety of human history.

I kind of hate that the bulk of research is showing that the presence of women in the professional workspace immediately makes the environment feel more hostile for men, in the sense that they now have to navigate the minefield of HR rules and avoid offending the most easily offended demographics on earth... meanwhile these women are becoming emotionally unglued with the expectations and the deadlines and the constant stress of comparing themselves to other high performers while also navigating the social dynamics they themselves impose on any group context. Basically we've given ourselves the worst of all possible worlds where neither gender is allowed to have anything close to their ideal working conditions.

I daresay this is a worse equilibrium for everyone involved than one where women were effectively banned from working in the same departments as men.

I further, and more daringly, say that the only fix is re-asserting masculine norms and refusing to coddle feminine feelings simply to keep women on staff.

Simply, I don't see any feasible way to make the business environment, with its heavy competition, hard decisions, constant demands on your time and your sanity more comfortable for the fairer sex without destroying the actual mechanisms which make it function at all. No more bonuses for good performance, no more unpaid overtime, no more crunch, no more strict hierarchy and constantly shifting expectations and demands... how can commerce occur in such conditions?

If you want to escape all that, well, can I suggest starting a family?

So in short, I would agree with and Amplify Ms. Andrews up there.

Related note, it seems like women are less comfortable using AI in general,

Half of all ERP use is women, at least. Seems they're quite comfortable with that.

How many would happily admit to that if pressed, though.

Yeah, self reports are worthless. Look at what people do, not what they say.

Consider this screencap of the trending tab (the number is chat msgs in last 24h) on one of the less degenerate chatbot sites.

It does blow my mind that women seem to be able to get 90% of their sexual gratification from text alone, with some visual accompaniment.

Proof is in the pudding, but my male brain pretty much demands that I get some sort of visual and audio stimulation and ideally it be physically present, so its hard for me to grok how it feels to get aroused from text without some accompanying expectation of actual physical contact later.

It kind of blows my mind that people can't get it from text alone. Then again, since I grew up relatively pornless, maybe it's just an adaptation, or I'm so used to holding myself back in key ways [i.e. the reasons for that state] that I've accidentally become transgender just kind of stopped trying to prefer the strictly visual.

Perhaps I'm just more comfortable externalizing the whole thing, which as I understand it is also not exactly stereotypically male. Or maybe it's just because you can't masturbate cuddling, I dunno.

I think that there are tricks to make porn that's strictly visible gratifying in the text way where you... basically just show the emotional effects (or rather, fail to neglect them), but to do that requires some intentionality and most of it is just trying to show off the largest examples of certain anatomy possible. (Text can do that too, but if it does this poorly, things throb harder than humanity's collective mass of stubbed toes.)

It kind of blows my mind that people can't get it from text alone.

Same, although TBF I'm old enough that my teenage years largely predate the world wide web, so there's definitely a generational component to that for me. The dirty stories and smutty books had all kinds of good stuff that could push a lot more of my developing buttons than the stock "three flavors of provocatively posed naked young ladies" that made up the majority of pornography back when Shelbyville was called Morganville and you couldn't get a white onion because of the war and all you could get was those big yellow ones.

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