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Culture War Roundup for the week of October 20, 2025

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Anything that makes my dick hard is a woman. The failure of the modern trans movement is to have ugly failed men be the face of the movement instead of fuckable femboys. Get the trans movement to be astolfo crossplayers, and schedule an anime cosplay competition at the same time as the NRC. Republicans will be singing the tune of femboy superiority in no time.

Can't tell if you're joking or serious, but hard disagree. It's just homosexuality with better costumes. I think the particular modus you are describing is the method of grabbing 'feminine' status/power to avoid a low status position. I honestly read it the same way as those fitness videos where the now muscular bro lambasts their previous scrawny self.

Beware The Femboy Of One Study.

Results Gynandromorphophilia (GAMP) is sexual interest in gynandromorphs (GAMs; colloquially, shemales) ... GAMP men had arousal patterns similar to those of heterosexual men and different from those of homosexual men.

It's fairly obvious from cultures where ladyboys are a thing (most notoriously, Thailand) that the men who fuck ladyboys are not gay.

That is not obvious to me. Are you confounding social cues with orientation or behavior? Do you consider the men who act with ladyboys not gay because they are 'straight-acting'?

Even in places famous for promoting non-heterosexuality, there's a lot more guys who like woman-and-people-who-have-boob+dick than who like men-and-people-who-have-boob+dick, even before adjusting for demographics. The former category isn't universal or even common among otherwise-straight men, but if I had to guess, there's probably more of it than there are attractive trans woman in the real world. The latter category does exist, but it's really small, and most of the examples are more on the AGP or trans side.

There's some fun argument-about-definitions going on -- the tops are still fucking XY-chromosoned people some of the time, yes -- but whatever the resulting category is called, it's somewhat interesting that it's around. If even a small fraction of this population fit the stereotype of just wanting some breasts around to keep their other attraction toward the male form deniable, you'd expect to see some outputs fitting that, and it's really just not.

(by comparison, that's absolutely a category that shows up in bi porn: Corbin Fisher's a little infamous for having their main talent literally throw the women into the background or out of the camera frame to focus on the real action.)

If even a small fraction of this population fit the stereotype of just wanting some breasts around to keep their other attraction toward the male form deniable

Isn't that just because [mechanism of attraction to the male form] functions differently than [mechanism of attraction to the female form], though? Straight men are aroused by penises after all (I don't believe that 1950s-era study measured women in that way, and this is notable for being conducted in a pre-mass-issue-pornography world) so it's not that far out of left field for futanari to be the overwhelmingly dominant meme for men. /d/ is for dickgirl, after all.

By contrast, I didn't think women were aroused by the form itself and were more into a derivative of its appearance/what it ultimately represents, or the qualities those traits suggest. Strength is attractive, muscles on their own perhaps not as much (if I recall correctly, men rate that chad.jpg meme- the actual picture one, not the MS Paint one- as more attractive than women do).

men rate that chad.jpg meme- the actual picture one, not the MS Paint one- as more attractive than women do

See relevant comic 😁

The link's broken. If you link to the page the image is on and not the page directly it should work though.

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