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PaperclipPerfector  12hr ago (text post)   483 thread views

Friday Fun Thread for April 10, 2026

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Getting married today. I suppose that counts as fun. We've been together for 10 years already, so I think we've a decent hand on this whole romance thing, but does anyone who can beat that want to chime in with advice for love and life?

Hell yeah. I got married last month after a similar dating period. Even though I didn’t really expect it to change anything, I keep finding myself grinning like an idiot.

Congratulations!

Congratulations!

I'm coming up on my ten year wedding anniversary, and we were together for two years before that. So not much longer of a tenure than you. But marriage is different than dating.

My general advice is to go all in. Mix finances, get a house together, have kids, etc.

Thanks! Well, we're 1 for 3 aiming for 2 of 3. We've had the house for a while, are planning on kids, but are pretty committed to separate finances. Both of us had parents who had disputes over money, hers more severe than mine, and feel better about a hers/mine/ours situation where we have a shared account for shared expenses. Having kids might change that, but I don't think it will.

Congratulations! Take some time to enjoy the reception, there's a lot of structure in many receptions, don't let that fill your time there.

Our whole event is pretty low-key, so I'll actually be spending much of the reception with my dad grilling lol.

Sounds like mine, have fun! Don't forget to click the tongs!

I don't have much advice, but I wish you both the best

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