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“You’d be a great stepdad someday.”
Where the hell did I see it, was it on here or some other hellsite, someone posted about a woman saying "you'd make a great dad" and being highly insulted by this, that she was dumping him in the friendzone and not seeing him as the rugged manly stallion prime hunk of masculinity that he was?
Meanwhile most women were commenting "but that's a compliment, she thinks you're husband material!" but seemingly "husband material" is also judged "rejecting my smouldering sexiness" aka "not giving me the ride".
Wasn't me, but I'll play along.
You're not in traffic; you are traffic.
Stepdad material != Husband material != Dad material != Baby's daddy material. The first would be a backhanded compliment from a woman, perhaps a direct insult. The last would be a backhanded insult from a woman, perhaps a direct compliment.
The middle two are more dependent on the woman uttering the statement. For example, a young virgin saying you're husband-material is a compliment. A seasoned carousel rider saying so is a not-so-subtle sneak diss.
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