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PaperclipPerfector  13hr ago (text post)   452 thread views

Wellness Wednesday for May 13, 2026

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New Year's resolutions check-in:

  • Posted my eleventh blog post of the year last Thursday (technically a few minutes after midnight). Expanded from a comment I posted here in response to @ThomasdelVasto looking for guidance on dealing with depression – thanks for the inspiration.
  • Went to the gym three times last week. On Wednesday I just did some core exercises which I found here. Friday was squat and overhead press. On Saturday, I decided to warm up with some stretches and core exercises before deadlifting. During deadlifting I used my belt (having not used for the last few weeks), then for good measure I did some stretches afterwards as well. This seemed to work: my disc isn't bothering me as much as it was. Yesterday I did a 5k run on my lunch break, planning to go to the gym this evening. Can deadlift 1.84x my bodyweight for 3 reps, squat 1.2x for 7 reps and bench press .87x for 6 reps.
  • Have not consumed any pornography since waking up on January 1st.

How goes it, @thejdizzler, @self_made_human, @bird_cromble and @falling-star?

The only gym I'm going to for the next week and change is for the mind. Paper B season, pray it doesn't give me too many mental papercuts. I'll try and exercise at home, even if I all I really want to do is curl up in bed and cry.

gym I'm going to for the next week and change is for the mind

Time to plug my favorite cultivation novel!

https://www.royalroad.com/fiction/41330/virtuous-sons-a-greco-roman-xianxia

I would threaten to shoot you, but you're an American doctor and probably wouldn't be fazed.

I have literally already had a patient threaten to shoot me today!

...and that's not counting the nonsense on my commute.

You should go ahead and marry self_made already so we can get him in here. Not sure if a doctor's medical license transfers with marriage, but perhaps it should!!!

If I ever stop posting it is because I relayed this idea to the missus.

I enjoy the implication that you'd keep posting even if you were shot, and that marriage to me is a more likely prospect still. If I were to be shot or stabbed in clinic, you bet I'd be writing an essay about it.

https://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2011/03/bad_at_math.html

Tis a shrink tradition.

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