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Culture War Roundup for the week of September 21, 2026

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I am down with magic words. A reasonable human being is able to make conversation. That is what makes us human.

The alternative ends up being a cop looked at me wrong therefore evidence suppressed.

And I disagree with the characterization of “am I being detained” or “get out of my way I’m walking home” as some kind of magic versus normal human conversation. It’s not some priestly class words that only a few people from a special caste know how to do.

I don’t think you should need a law degree - magical words - to interact with police. That’s not the standard I’m arguing for.

And there isn’t any downside in this specific case. The officer still can’t search the subject without establishing probably cause for detention. You can still suppress for an illegal search. In this case a subject ran because an officer talked to him.

I am down with magic words. A reasonable human being is able to make conversation. That is what makes us human.

Police like to make it unclear whether they are detaining someone, so that someone can be intimidated into responding as if he was detained, yet the officer gets the benefits of a court treating him as not detained.

That's why magic words are necessary in the first place.

And I disagree with the characterization of “am I being detained” or “get out of my way I’m walking home” as some kind of magic versus normal human conversation. It’s not some priestly class words that only a few people from a special caste know how to do.

People using normal human conversation can get some idea about whether they're detained. But without magic words, the result depends on 1) how badly the officer obfuscates whether they're being detained and 2) the court's hindsight about whether that conversation was good enough. That's a bad position to be in, even though it might work anyway.

A reasonable human being is able to make conversation.

A reasonable human should not be obliged to make conversation with a cop. That's what the "no self incrimination" amendment is for. The government should not be able to compel ANY kind of speech.

(Yes, I know subpoenas exist. I'm not happy about them as applied to private individuals.)

And I disagree with the characterization of “am I being detained” or “get out of my way I’m walking home” as some kind of magic versus normal human conversation. It’s not some priestly class words that only a few people from a special caste know how to do.

"I am not detaining you. This is not a search." aren't magic words either. I don't see why we should put the burden on citizens, instead of the cops, to clarify the law.

“ A reasonable human should not be obliged to make conversation with a cop. That's what the "no self incrimination" amendment is for.”

  • “Am I being detained” is not a self-incriminating statement. America is a land citizens. Citizens are capable of interacting with public officials. And in this specific situation you can just walk around the cop since he has told you that you are being detained. A cop can’t arrest you for resisting arrest unless they’ve informed you that you are under arrests.

“ I am not detaining you. This is not a search." aren't magic words either. I don't see why we should put the burden on citizens, instead of the cops, to clarify the law.”

  • How is a cop suppose to know every situation where a citizen might be curious if they are being detained? Should they just say “I am not detaining you every 5 second” in case someone might be confused that they are being detained?

Our form of government is for citizens. And yes that means being able to competently interact with different parts of government.

At no point in the interaction described to me in this case have any of my rights been violated. A cop looking at me weird doesn’t mean I get a get out of jail free card if I run.

I think if you look at this case different and not as a criminal then you would not think “detention” happened and it’s very clear. If I am strolling thru a park doing nothing illegal and a cop walks up to me to talk I don’t think I am being detained. What makes people just to detention here is that the person actually was a bad guy.

Cops on duty who approach a pedestrian are not normal human conversation. And by my estimate a regular reasonable 100 iq person who hasn't been schooled on cop interactions doesn't know the first thing about rights and laws around detainment.

I was once very aggressively stopped by the police while on foot. Three of them ran up and surrounded me while yelling into radios. My reaction was sheer confusion, and by the time I understood what was happening, they decided I wasn't the guy they were looking for and started to move on. One lingered a moment to say "I knew it wasn't you. You were way too calm".

The whole experience lasted 30s.

Cops are normal people until they detain you. You can just talk to them.

And most 100 IQ people are perfectly fine at making small talk. That is not some giga brain ability. Actually average IQ people are better at that.

What happened here is some dumb urban youth saw a cop after he fired some bullets and was still in possession of the gun. He figured the cop probably is going to arrest me because I’m guilty so he ran. But at that point in the encounter he had not yet been detained and wanted the head start on the running.