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What about babysitting? Or cleaning people's houses?
I'm also of the opinion that most of these issues are psychosomatic, so I will admit I'm a bit biased here. Not that psychosomatic disorders don't need care and compassion, but I'm skeptical that they actually cannot ever work again.
The exact jobs I've seen arguments about on here that are too low-skill and 'anyone can do them' to charge high wages so the cost of childcare is scandalous compared to the labour done.
You can't have it both ways: either that kind of labour is a job and is paid accordingly (not sky high but enough), or it's paid peanuts because "my sixteen year old niece will mind my two kids after school" and thus isn't going to support an adult (let alone one with a family).
And yeah, even for babysitting/childminding, you do need to be able to lift and bend and carry, and it's a job where you can put out your back over time.
Suggesting that disabled coal miners go into childcare might be on par with that Ben Shapiro bit about selling houses.
Well now we need to encourage more men into the industry as it's pretty much female-dominated, do you have something against equality or what? 😁
I’m ready for the Pacifier sequel where Vin Diesel takes on his toughest parenting challenge yet: the opioid epidemic.
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What could possibly go wrong?
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Ahh yes. Cleaning - such a gentle load on a person's back.
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How did you form that opinion, and how confident are you in it?
It's a bit personal, but I am quite confident in it. Read this article on Sarno if you're curious to start going down the chronic pain rabbit hole.
Which of his falsifiable claims hasn't been disproven?
Most of the claims of the mechanisms are likely not spot on I'll admit, but the 'psychological' effect is absolutely real. Make of that what you will.
Which psychological effect? Psychogenic symptoms and psychogenic relief are two very different claims. What would it take to change your mind?
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My wife also had a chronic health issue for a few years before she stumbled on Sarno and it went away in 2 months by doing (basically) nothing.
Mentioned this to other friends as well and those that "tried it" had similar success stories (tiny sample but still).
So I think this is vastly underestimated. I tried starting a conversation years ago on a comment post on Scott's blog but nothing came of it iirc.
Yeah the typical rationalist mind is allergic to this sort of thing. It's a shame.
Very late reply here: Actually it's weird that they don't like it because after my wife told me about this I thought that it goes really well with my understanding of things which is entirely based on https://slatestarcodex.com/2017/09/05/book-review-surfing-uncertainty.
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Totally willing to believe most people claiming ‘chronic pain’ are faking it for either 1) a medical marijuana scrip or 2) a disability diagnosis. That doesn’t mean they’re in good health/can take jobs with any arbitrary physical demands.
At the end of the day, blue collar laborers in their fifties are not going to be able to do much if they lose their jobs. Fake disabilities reflect the underlying reality that these people cant adjust to a new set of physical demands.
I think the point is not that they fake it but that they meme themselves into being retarded. The pain is real, the cause is not. Or something like this is the saying.
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(I legitimately don’t remember who’s a parent or not, don’t get offended) uhh, have you ever watched a toddler? There’s some picking kids up(that may not want to be) involved, and running after them and the like. And cleaning houses is similar- lots of bending over, moving things out of the way. Neither one is conducive to poor-health based physical unfitness, although they don’t need a power lifter.
How dare you??? I have 11 youngins you whippersnapper!!!
Nah, don't have kids yet. I am largely unsympathetic to people with chronic health issues as I've said elsewhere. I'll tag you.
Look, I do a sedentary office job as administrative support. The heaviest things I carry are a bunch of files. I use my hands and arms for typing.
And I had a upper spinal disc problem (yes it showed up on x-ray so no I wasn't imagining or pretending) that meant I had terrible pain that started in my neck, gradually went down my arm, and ended up at the knuckles every single day and night for a prolonged period of time. It genuinely felt like my arm was on fire and I couldn't sleep because of the pain. My doctor didn't put me on painkillers (no idea why, unless it was 'don't want to facilitate addiction') so I was dosing myself up with over-the-counter analgesics (I sincerely believe I may have borked my liver the amounts I was taking for relief, plus I managed through other means to source tablets containing codeine which did permit me to sleep by reducing the pain to a dull roar) and I genuinely feared I wouldn't be able to work, because the pain made it impossible to use my hands.
Fortunately, the trapped nerve or whatever eventually untrapped itself or died or something so the pain stopped.
And that was just for a damn "sit at a desk and type emails etc." job. Imagine if I was doing anything even a bit more labour-intensive requiring dexterity or strength.
So just wait until you get old enough, or over-exert yourself enough, to run into a chronic health issue then come back with the same opinion.
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Sure. If they can do those things, then they’re less disabled. How do you get from there to “handouts for people who didn’t have the intelligence or wherewithal”?
Imagine a more extreme case where a guy loses his legs and, thus, his lifelong job at the widget-stomping factory. If he gets disability, it’s not because he couldn’t make it in college.
Now say a doctor asks him, “hey, do you have any skills that could get you a different job? One that doesn’t require jumping up and down?” Here a college degree would be a mitigating factor for his existing, factual disability. The handout was never for failing college. It was for not having legs.
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