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Wellness Wednesday for July 29, 2026

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New Year's resolution check-in:

How goes it @self_made_human, @thejdizzler, @birb_cromble, @ThomasdelVasto and @falling-star?

The injured thumb mostly precluded anything intensive. But I've spent the week on the move, fucking around in Edinburgh and Glasgow till my new shoes gave me blisters.

  1. Work. Back from Europe. Excited and motivated to wrap up the end of my PhD. Job interview in Germany went well, and have another one here in Baltimore in two weeks. Will probably make a bigger post on wellness Wednesday in a few weeks about my decision to get your guys' advice.
  2. Fitness: Mileage was fairly low over the course of the trip (43,43,51). Hoping for 55 this week. Came back to a nice surprise: I've lost 5-7 pounds, which is about ~50% of all the weight I wanted to lose. Unfortunately I currently feel terrible because of the jet lag, but I'm sure I will recover soon. 11 weeks until Chicago.
  3. Intellectual stuff: reading Foundation for philosophy book club and enjoying it. Actually got a lot of Spanish practice on the trip, and thinking I should preemptively switch my L3 focus from Italian to German. Otherwise am starting a few economics books (Great Crash 1929, Pocket Picketty) which I am excited about, as this is an area of weakness for me.
  4. Finances: work covered most of my trip-related expenses. I also got an unexpected $2k from a student loan law suit, my salary got bumped by about $150/month, and I earned about $500 in interest/dividends from my investments. So actually ended up being an incredibly positive (35+% savings rate) month. Thinking about giving 10% of my net savings each month away (either in the form of paying for substack subscriptions or increasing the amount I donate to my income sharing club), so would also appreciate any thoughts on this.
  5. Dating. Nothing. In too much of a liminal space in terms of careers to dedicate much time to this now.
  6. Tarot. Will have a session this weekend!
  7. Socializing: Was very social my first few days in Germany. Haven't done anything since I got back, but hard to do so when I crash at about 7:30 pm.
  8. Screen time: 3 hours, but makes sense given travel!
  9. Meditation: 5 minutes 3x last week. Hoping for every day this week.

Came back to a nice surprise: I've lost 5-7 pounds, which is about ~50% of all the weight I wanted to lose

That's a surprisingly common refrain I've heard from people who have gone to Europe for a few weeks. I wonder if there's something about the food, or if something about the culture causes people to be more active.

I don't think the destination is the most relevant part. Going on vacation tends to make you lose weight by being more physically active.

I'm not entirely sure about that. Maybe it's a cultural thing, but a lot of people I know tend to eat their way through vacations. Mexico seems to be the worst for that, for some reason.

The food is really good, really cheap, and you drink soda instead of water.

That tracks. I can destroy some Mexican food.

And by Newton's third law...

Real talk - I got my laws mixed up and thought you were suggesting I'd shit my pants so hard I took off like a rocket.

I think it's a combination of smaller portion sizes, and walking about 25k steps/day. Walking is much more pleasant and feasible in Europe, so I tended to do it more than here.

Thinking about giving 10% of my net savings each month away (either in the form of paying for substack subscriptions or increasing the amount I donate to my income sharing club), so would also appreciate any thoughts on this.

You're more than welcome to become a paid subscriber to me if you like!

I think I will once your comp ends! Your posts are very high quality and I appreciate them a lot.

Spending is $3,091.81 less than the same day last year. The weather is still holding up the last big expense I have pending, which is frustrating for a couple of reasons.

I keep reminding myself even if I do end up behind where I was last year, it's not that bad. My expenses this year aren't discretionary like they were last year (mostly medical and home repairs), and even if they were, my personal savings rate is around 50% YTD if I go by the federal definition. Even if I don't hit my goal, I'm still seeing benefits.

Thanks for checking in!!! Things are going well, not doing porn and going to gym. Got some crazy life stuff going on but I'm excited.

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