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hydroacetylene
8m ago
Because blessings give grace and strength to the faithful.
HughCaulk
8m ago
Best take on this site.
The dating discourse here tends towards “communism for pussy” as I’ve said before. Funny that on a mostly libertarian leaning site, many posters write screeds about the “top 20% of men”, kinda like you’d see on some socialist forum about the “top 1% of earners”. Libertarianism for what I do have, communism for what I don’t!
You want more wealth and income? Better work for it! Want more pussy? Better work for it!
Good news is that they are somewhat correlated, so you can do a two birds one stone situation here.
hydroacetylene
13m ago
Yes it is.
The mainstream Christian view is that trying to predict the end times with more specificity than the Bible tells us is for nut jobs.
Primaprimaprima
...something all admit only "TRUMP", and the Trump Administration, can do.
15m ago
those are requirements to date the actually desirable girls.
What do you consider to be an actually desirable girl, exactly? Just curious. Because I feel like my own criteria is not the norm.
professorgerm
You shall love your crooked neighbor, with your crooked heart
18m ago
Disease eradication is probably the easiest to defend
And maintaining the screw-worm border.
I’d go to bat for various foreign aid and social programs to a lesser degree.
I'd be more satisfied if the people that go to bat for foreign social programs would just acknowledge that it's colonialism, but good when they do it.
I was actually thinking about edgy contrarians like KulakRevolt.
Okay, fair. You seem to consider them more common than I do, and I will not defend the relative proportions.
Whether or not they embrace heel tactics, you can dig down and find an intended policy
Well, yes. Whether or not that policy is insane is another matter.
hydroacetylene
23m ago
So does Christianity.
I suspect what you mean is ‘I think Buddhism is true’.
Laukhi
25m ago
I think I pretty much agree with you.
If that is how the Chinese actors themselves conceptualize this, does it matter if we can object to such thinking as historically reductionist and stereotypical?
I don't object to that way of thinking per se, but I doubt that it does much work, either for them or for us third-person observers. (I might be wrong - it seems to me that the strongest objection is that it's a very live option for Chinese people to take the West, or at least what the West is perceived to do well in, as a model, whereas it might be less so for Americans.) My armchair psychological theory is that talented, smart Chinese people are often those who assimilate into Western society most easily, and they - or we, I guess I should say - graft this way of thinking on top of prior instincts, desires, etc.
Not to say that it's entirely an inert superstructure, but my overall view is that it's significantly more informative to look at structural features of China's economy, such as regulations on investment or whatnot, etc., than at how it gets conceptualized in this sort of discourse. Unless one is interested in China's self-image for its own sake, naturally.
hydroacetylene
25m ago
It’s interesting to note that Kamala just kept offending Catholics(even the ones that don’t go to church very much) and this probably explains much of the red shift, even if Catholicism is generationally getting redder as the generation that remembers JFK dies off.
hydroacetylene
29m ago
I think that the TradCath community will grow but will end up like the Amish or Hasidics.
We are nothing like the Amish or Hasidic. We speak the majority language of our surrounding communities, our homeschooled kids work normal jobs when they grow up and often enough play sports on normal teams, we don’t have a separate court system internally, etc, etc.
Mormonism is much closer sociologically. Not identical but closer.
hydroacetylene
35m ago
I think it is almost inevitable to have mass immigration from Africa when the continent will inevitably be drawn into one or more huge conflicts of countries with hundreds of million of people.
The second Congo war(aka African world war) would have done this if it was going to happen.
hydroacetylene
38m ago
It’s interesting that this represents a shift to the historical norm for western societies- courtship was srs bznss for adult men who could support themselves and their families with no outside help, and a woman of indeterminate age but usually early twenties. And generally, that does seem to be the pattern- teenage dating is an artifact of postwar liberal consensus and declining like every other artifact thereof.
The idea that to court a woman you have to be an adult male with the economic means to marry her is pretty normal, actually. It’s deeply engrained in the psyche of humans domesticated by agrarianism. We should expect it to re-emerge over and over again.
WhiningCoil
38m ago
Is it a free market? Are you factoring in the market distortions of women taking out massive loans for fake degrees that don't pay, and then lobbying to have the taxpayer just forgive them? Or the weaker market distortions of income based repayment? Are you factoring in the cartel like behavior of HR which is predominantly run by overly educated women? Are you factoring in all the assistance programs women get for almost every facet of their life?
There is a lot going on, but at no point would I claim it's the "hand of the free market at work".
stuckinbathroom
39m ago
Ehh, I dunno.
First of all, to be fair, he didn’t say you need 15% BFP; he said you need sub-20% and 15% is ideal. This is eminently achievable for most men, especially if you have access to amphetamines or GLP-1 agonists (or both).
The other requirements (income threshold, solo living situation, social skills) are also fairly easily within reach for basically any 110+ IQ man in his 20s or 30s with 50th %ile+ conscientiousness who lives in a mid-size or larger metro area.
Yes, I am aware that the median man is, almost by definition, practically incapable of meeting this bar, and I agree with OP’s sentiment that the bar has gotten higher and the responsibility for meeting it has devolved further to atomized individual men acting on their own. But the bar is definitely way lower than 6-6-6, and (unlike height or penis length) the traits mentioned in this post can realistically be improved through deliberate effort. So I don’t see this post as discouraging, certainly not to the extent of, say, what goes on in /r/BlackPillScience
Primaprimaprima
...something all admit only "TRUMP", and the Trump Administration, can do.
45m ago
What dating crisis? This is just the almighty hand of the free market at work. Standards are high, as they inevitably will be when all parties are equally free to enter into voluntary associations.
We need to take "collective action as a society" to remove impediments to men's access to women (including, presumably, the "ugly, mean, and poor bottom 50%" of men) -- yeah, ok, have you asked the women how they feel about that? "I have this plan that will make it more likely for you to date someone who's ugly, mean, and poor". Wtf that's a terrible sales pitch.
Guaranteed monogamy for all is nothing more than the socialized ownership of the means of reproduction.
If you're a leftist you can't actually grant that your opponents are on the same level.
Because many of the tactics they use are not things you can universalize, they're good because of who those things are being done to or for.
Granting that it's just a contest of will/a way to feel good is obviously very dangerous for what sees itself as a minority pushing society towards progress. Nihilism favors the majority.
VoxelVexillologist
Multidimensional Radical Centrist
50m ago
The closest I'm aware of is the nominal academic license of Facebook's llama models that seems to have been largely ignored once they were out in the wild. At the time, Meta was trailing a bit, and it probably helped their mindshare overall, but they didn't bring any court cases that I'm aware of either.
istinetz
53m ago
I feel like this blog post cannot be used to make sweeping conclusions about the failure of western society. While I agree with your general outlook, there is a bit of a misunderstanding here.
When he's listing requirements, those are not requirements to date someone, really; those are requirements to date the actually desirable girls.
Just as >50% of the male population ages 25-45 that don't make the $70k cut, >50% of the female population 25-45 don't make the implicit cut for this blog post.
No_one
57m ago
Enough exposure to porn removes the drive to seek and most importantly to put up with actual women. That's why Japan is the way it is. (30% virginity rate at 30 etc)
Without porn, men can go to incredible lengths to get a woman. Go watch some silent-gen men talk about how they met their wife. "Oh I had to invite her to a dance six times over two months before she finally said yes." etc
Capital_Room
rather dementor-like
1hr ago
Because it’s already happening
"[Citation needed]" as they say
blue America has neither the consistent control nor the willingness to put in the work to stop it.
I very much disagree with this — I think it's but a matter of time until they come down hard on this sort of thing.
I am a bit left of centre and can see some truth in this.
I do think a lot of language policing was done by people who didn't really believe it was a huge favour to the downtrodden groups they were defending. They though it was a small, token thing, and many language policers were actually motivated not because they truly believed they were helping a lot, but more by the status points they got as champions of the disadvantaged.
For this reason, yes, I do think they were surprised that people on the right would want a piece of that. In their heart of hearts, they thought the main prize was the high ground, not being a recipient of some meagre linguistic charity.
This para I slightly disagree with
I think to a very large extent left-wing culture in the US was totally unprepared for that kind of jealousy. Because they sort of thought of themselves as underdogs it was really hard to process the idea that right-wing culture contained a ton of people who desperately wanted to be underdogs in the same way, who didn’t view those things as scraps left over by the powerful, but instead thought of it as what power looks like.
Because I don't think language policers did, for the most part, think of themselves as underdogs. On the contrary, they saw themselves as privileged people defending underdogs. And it's something of a tribute to their power that folks on the right wanted some of the same cultural perks bestowed on them.
No_one
1hr ago
I don't think you get it. LLMs actually think, after a fashion, and in a way that's easily more deep than that of all but say, 15% of people. Pornography is ultimately unsatisfying, but with memory, these systems could offer a simulacrum of understanding that anyone who doesn't understand what is really behind it could find satisfying.
The_Nybbler
In the game of roller derby, women aren't just the opposing team; they're the ball.
1hr ago
For men employed full time, median earnings are at about $68K, so yes. He also says you have to have 15 percent body fat, your own apartment with no roommates, and be highly intelligent and socially skillful. It's not quite 6-6-6, but it seems designed not to provide useful advice but to discourage. Not really surprising.
For context, I think it's talking about this story: https://archive.is/bV9pS https://archive.is/qoyIB
Here's Biden's announcement: https://www.justice.gov/archives/opa/pr/departments-justice-and-health-and-human-services-announce-interim-resolution-agreement
And Trump's announcement rolling it back: https://www.justice.gov/opa/pr/department-justice-terminates-environmental-justice-settlement-agreement-advancing-president
Here's the offending language in the original agreement (emphasis added):
The PHIIP will include the process that ADPH will follow to solicit, coordinate, engage with, and receive the input of Lowndes County residents, representatives of Lowndes County residents, wastewater, infrastructure, soil, and engineering experts, and environmental justice advocates, on the amelioration of public health effects of inadequate onsite wastewater systems.
Also, I don't believe that the consent decree itself provided any funding. So no money was yanked and only the state is to blame if they decide they want to spend the money on something else.
netstack
Texas is freedom land
1hr ago
A better fit for the SSQ Sunday thread, surely. Or add more of your own commentary.
Is the United States not a ‘mature society’?
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