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Why do people engage in culture war though? I mean in some cases it is necessary like literal wars or a group actively holding hostile views against another and opposes thier rights on the basis of prejudice. But much of the discourse I have seen is more about attacking the group and pulling down even normal members of the group ignoring that they are not some genocidal murderers. Even though they bear some responsibilities for their own group or country it ignores that normal people often avoid conflict rather than holding the same prejudiced beliefs themselves.
I don't really think culture war is the solution, because whether one side is right or wrong it ultimately makes a breeding ground for hatred and nobody here will be listening to the facts and work upon a solution. It is sort of like our race, color, wealth, institutions etc .. all make up our identity of who we are. Any attack on these are an attack on the person belonging to that said group (and I am not talking about criticism of the group). Will anyone sit to think about thier position? Of course not because human nature is reactionary and much of out actions are governed by feelings. It would be unrealistic to expect the person being attacked to be reasonable, especially if it is actively hostile. But it will lead to a never ending war with each other without any solutions.
The 21st century escalation of the culture war is largely driven by social media. So a large part of the answer is "People engage in culture war because a small number of for-profit businesses show them that all the cool kids are engaging in culture war." Note show, not tell - social media algorithms curate your feed in a way which is optimised for engagement and ad revenue, and as part of that they are going to give you a potentially misleading impression of the kind of content your peers are posting.
Mark Zuckerberg burned the democratic commons in order to get people to click on more adverts. I actually believe this.
He certainly wasn't alone in this: Reddit and Twitter also made out like bandits, and I'm probably forgetting a few.
But it did seem a bit inevitable: the seeds were already there. Skirmishes had been ongoing for decades, even, in public fora. The Internet was the modern industrialism to the Culture War's WWI. But lots of people were happy to get rich as arms dealers.
Also, how do we get the equivalent of a treaty of Westphalia, not Versailles?
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Not commenting on you in either way but I think believing:
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Because I think every side is wrong. We don't actually know how to organize society right now and need to figure it out. We also don't seem to be smart enough to figure it out theoretically, so we're stuck doing live cultural evolution. Liberalism is a loosening of cultural norms, and you can read two purposes to it. One is that it gives space for figuring things out when you have big changes in material circumstances, like mass literacy, the industrial revolution or social media. The other is that the lack of oppressive norms is an end in itself and the way to the good life. The first one makes sense, the second one is quite a bit iffier, but the second one is also a simpler idea and if things get vulgarized it's a tempting hole to fall into. Things seemed to work pretty well up until around 2010 when social media showed up and broke some invisible precondition for 20th century liberalism. The message then quickly morphed into one where we have figured things out, just don't be a dick, only bad people are disagreeing. We need to wind down this whole free speech nonsense since we know what's right and what's wrong already. Oh, and we're totally going to be explicitly racist from now on. I'm not buying this as the end of history, and I'm not sure the system would self-correct on its own.
Outside pressure will force the sides stay sharp, adapt to their terrain and come up with new ways to act, instead of everyone ending up chasing the same bureaucratically assigned goal and stagnating. The multipolar world also keeps bringing attention to the pain points of each faction, like Catholic sex abuse scandals, immigrant crime in Europe or the crippling lack of human capital in current US right wing, when the factions themselves would prefer to just suppress discussion of the matter and leave the problem to fester. I'm hoping that poking at these will eventually build up to a broader understanding of what works and what doesn't and what can be changed to improve things in the future.
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Because you may not be interested in the culture war, but the culture war is interested in you. Consider the example of a male tech employee seeing the proposal being mooted that "any male tech employee accused of sexual harassment against a woman should simply be fired, because it will be easier on them to find a job than it would on the woman to deal with the investigation". Does this seem like a wise thing for him to simply let pass by?
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I can only speak for myself. But I (mostly) "wage" the culture war because I believe that culture actually matters, and, in fact it matters much more than many people in modern society would like to admit. There are a lot of people who are libertarians (and those to the left of them), who essentially think nothing but GDP and economic growth, and taxes matter, and that cultural/societal norms are largely arbitrary. What these people don't understand is that culture effects economics, (and the inverse is also true: economics affects culture).
A small scale example of this is the job market: the best and easiest way to get hired at a job is via nepotism: aka a friend or family member recommends you to the boss or hiring manager, and your resume gets pulled through, you get interviewed, and then hired. This is effective because the hiring manager has some background information on you, that he doesn't have about random applicants online. But increasingly, people are becoming more isolated, and are having less friendships. We often here a lot about college grads having a hardtime finding a job, but we are also (Im speaking for me, Im gen-z) far less likely to have close friends than previous generations. If we had more connections it would probably help us get in the door faster and easier.
A large scale example is declining birthrates: an arguably cultural change that will and is already having massive implications. As populations age, we need more people to pay for retirement, and also fill jobs in the increasingly large healthcare sector. (Fun fact: healthcare is what is having the largest job growth!). We are running out of people, which is having large economic effect on socially safety net and healthcare systems.
Point is, the general idea that culture "doesnt matter" or is arbitrary is absurd. Lifestyles matter, and Im a firm believer that there is a heiarchy, to quote Charles Murray in his interview with Ronald Bailey via ReasonTV.
Note: Murray is talking specifically about the lower class, but much of this is affecting all economic classes. It simply happens to impact the lower class the most.
Of course, All I've said, you can probably guess which side of this war I'm biased towards. But I'm more or less convinced that the conservative positions on these issues are better overall than anything I've seen in more liberal and progressive circles.
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isn't this just behavioral psychology? But one thing that stands out is how the most inconsequential things generate the most fervent debate: the ballroom, cheesecake factory , renaming AI to SI , etc. These are tiny stakes but captivate the media, distracting from more impotent things. Culture wars tend to involve things which have low stakes but are highly partisan in nature. I guess that is what separates it from actual war.
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Because for twenty years, there has been one stable replacement fertility rate in a developed country- partisan republicans. That's why SEC and pop country became fashionable over the late 2010's, because the percentage of teenagers embracing republican culture started rising precipitously.
So the great replacement is real- the blue tribe is being replaced by the red tribe. But both are, for now, essentially cultural identities. The head of the Texas GOP is a red tribe Indian American- he's a Christian convert who likes to wear cowboy hats and thinks high schoolers should be well-rounded instead of test scores minmaxers. And obviously blue tribe non-whites are a dime a dozen. So blue tribe values need to be imposed as a means of counteracting the demographic advantage, because the blue tribe is close-ish to an elite group. Otherwise the blue tribe will die out; once the teens and young adults are supermajority red(which does not necessarily entail hard right morality) then all the blue offspring will defect, because they want to hang out with their bros, they want peers. Like in premodern societies the culture war is essentially zero sum- the reds are defending their own offspring from blue tribe values being imposed by the government, yes, but the blues are doing this to defend their own offspring from the imposition of red tribe values by their peer environments.
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I think honestly it’s a bit of narcissism. Not that having an opinion on culture issues is wrong or bad, but if you’re “waging war” about it, it’s in some form or other about the human desire to get their own way and if possible to force it on other people.
Why would it matter to a person living in California what people in Idaho think about trans issues? Why do they care? It doesn’t affect them that conservative Baptists don’t want their kids to be trans. They lose no rights in California. Why would someone in Idaho care that Californians want their kids to be trans? It’s about control and the prevention of control. I want everyone to agree with me, therefore I wage culture wars and try to get the power to force everyone to agree with me.
It's a form of self-expression, to make the world a bit more compatible with your values, and/or to find similar people. Lazy activism is what substack posters, internet commenters, and other "culture warriors" (like me, I guess) do.
Why so nasty? Some of it is certainly hatred, sadism, and grifting for attention. But also, the world is a cruel place, so some cruelty is required to protect yourself and those you love; it’s hard to express kindness without appearing weak and cringe, especially in politics. Still, at the end of the day it is self-expression, and it influences the world by its appearance not intention; so I can’t escape the feeling nastiness should be minimized to what’s necessary, under evidence that is constantly rechecked.
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The simple correct answer is evolution.
Nature has always been at war with itself to evolve. Culture war is no different than any other kind of war. Those who win war get more resources for their offspring to ensure they survive and replicate themselves.
The big tribe is the successful tribe, and the successful tribe is good for its members. The culture war is fundamentally about trying to offset the red tribe fertility advantage.
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Why do people wage the culture war? Because they believe the politics are important and they care a lot.
Why do people engage here? To discuss topics relevant to the culture war in a forum that prohibits straight up waging it, and to test their opinions among people who are banned from participating on the mainstream internet. Or at least that is mostly why I post here. Overall this also serves as a space for people to share their controversial viewpoints. I am sure some are just here to hang out.
For sure, Reddit and other social media censor candid discussions about this stuff
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Interesting choice of exceptions that makes me think your first post here is not entirely in good faith or high effort.
Culture war is here because sizable minority of people wizened up on exactly how destructive entryism is, how many slippery slopes were even slipperier and because the culture they were growing up with was under attack and destroyed at any step.
Yeah, I get the feeling that this person (wittingly or unwittingly) has chosen a side in the culture war and is perplexed as to why the other side is not simply rolling over.
I'm speculating a bit, but I would guess that according to this individual (1) for one side, it's necessary and appropriate to participate in the culture war in order to "fight prejudice,"; but (2) the other side is being silly given that nobody is actually trying to genocide them. It reminds me of progressives who seriously accuse conservatives of being obsessed with race.
That being said, I admit I'm pretty sensitive on this issue and I see the word "prejudice" as a huge red flag. I think "prejudice" is one of those strategically ambiguous social justice buzzwords with a meaning that can jump back and forth between motte and bailey. Anyway, perhaps the poster will elucidate. I have asked a clarifying question down-thread.
I would guess OP is not a native speaker of American English, and in that case likely has a different context for 'prejudice' than the way it's used in Anglo-American political arguments.
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It helps to have some background:
Zunger:
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Spider Jerusalem:
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"rights" is not a coherent concept. "prejudice" is a Russell conjugation.
Humans organize themselves by the values they hold. Many values humans can hold are mutually incompatible. When you trap humans with incompatible values in a space together and force them to compete for resources, the result is escalating conflict until they find a way to segregate themselves by values again. Values can drift over time if sufficient values-homogeneity is not enforced; a homogenous group can build high-complexity society built on cooperation, and then values-drift into incompatible values that make it impossible to maintain that high-complexity society as more and more value drains into zero-sum or negative-sum competition with the outgroup.
Our society was previously values-coherent enough to function. It no longer is, so its complexity and stored value are being cannibalized to compensate: culture war. When there's not enough complexity and stored value to cannibalize, we will transition to actual war. The alternatives are separation, which no one knows how to do, and re-alignment, which no one knows how to do and which neither side is willing to accept.
None of this is irrational or a mistake. This is what humans do. Any and all of us could fix it in an instant: just accept losing. None of us are willing to do that. We do this because this is, after careful deliberation, what we want to do.
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Well, partially its people being Conflict theorists rather than mistake theorists.. If you believe your opponents' ideas are immutable to some degree, you wage war on the idea and the people who harbor it, rather than attempt persuasion.
"Culture War" is what it looks like to battle an idea/memeplex/egregore and (attempt to) eradicate it so it no longer competes with your preferred idea.
Its also people being averse to actual war, which is the method by which ideas are really put to the test. We're wealthy enough these days that it would suck to have to fight in an actual kinetic conflict, yet there are still ways to 'steal' wealth from your enemies (or neighbors) without their consent, and divide up the pie in ways that don't trigger a physically violent response. If you can make your enemies hand over wealth without having to fight them or risking your physical wellbeing in any way, you might find this quite appealing.
And at the end of the day, evolution has endowed people with the 'ingroup bias' (my tribe is the best and strongest around!) and they can draw their definition of ingroup along lines of race/color, wealth/class, or shared culture/ideology. So you wage culture war so as to fit in with your ingroup by proving to be a loyal soldier, and hopefully get compensated or rewarded for your efforts, so you can get in on the aforementioned wealth confiscation by giving all the right ingroup signals off, which means visibly participating in culture war.
If you want to be entitled to the 'spoils,' you gotta at least wear the uniform.
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I'm not sure I understand your point here. Let's suppose there is a group which is hostile to mine. It's very unlikely that it will come down to actual mass murder against my group but they still want to push for laws and norms which will significantly disadvantage my group. They are still fomenting hate against my group. In your view, would you say it's necessary and/or appropriate for me to respond?
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