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Training language models to be warm and empathetic makes them less reliable and more sycophantic:

Artificial intelligence (AI) developers are increasingly building language models with warm and empathetic personas that millions of people now use for advice, therapy, and companionship. Here, we show how this creates a significant trade-off: optimizing language models for warmth undermines their reliability, especially when users express vulnerability. We conducted controlled experiments on five language models of varying sizes and architectures, training them to produce warmer, more empathetic responses, then evaluating them on safety-critical tasks. Warm models showed substantially higher error rates (+10 to +30 percentage points) than their original counterparts, promoting conspiracy theories, providing incorrect factual information, and offering problematic medical advice. They were also significantly more likely to validate incorrect user beliefs, particularly when user messages expressed sadness. Importantly, these effects were consistent across different model architectures, and occurred despite preserved performance on standard benchmarks, revealing systematic risks that current evaluation practices may fail to detect. As human-like AI systems are deployed at an unprecedented scale, our findings indicate a need to rethink how we develop and oversee these systems that are reshaping human relationships and social interaction.

Assuming that the results reported in the paper are accurate and that they do generalize across model architectures with some regularity, it seems to me that there are two stances you can take regarding this phenomenon; you can either view it as an "easy problem" or a "hard problem":

  • The "easy problem" view: This is essentially just an artifact of the specific fine-tuning method that the authors used. It should not be an insurmountable task to come up with a training method that tells the LLM to maximize warmth and empathy, but without sacrificing honesty and rigor. Just tell the LLM to optimize for both and we'll be fine.

  • The "hard problem" view: This phenomenon is perhaps indicative of a more fundamental tradeoff in the design space of possible minds. Perhaps there is something intrinsic to the fact that, as a mind devotes more attention to "humane concerns" and "social reasoning", there tends to be a concomitant sacrifice of attention to matters of effectiveness and pure rigor. This is not to say that there are no minds that successfully optimize for both; only that they are noticeably more uncommon, relative to the total space of all possibilities. If this view is correct, it could be troublesome for alignment research. Beyond mere orthogonality, raw intellect and effectiveness (and most AI boosters want a hypothetical ASI to be highly effective at realizing its concrete visions in the external world) might actually be negatively correlated with empathy.

One HN comment on the paper read as follows:

A few months ago I asked GPT for a prompt to make it more truthful and logical. The prompt it came up with included the clause "never use friendly or encouraging language"

which is quite fascinating!

EDIT: Funny how many topics this fractured off into, seems notable even by TheMotte standards...

Whatever Anthropic does with Claude seems to work. It's the most flavorful model without really trying too hard to be bubbly and quirky like GPT-4o. Of course, it has its own sycophancy issues, but nowhere near as bad as 4o. (The least sycophantic model I know is Kimi K2, which is incredibly cynical, which makes it interesting)

I am more inclined to go with the "easy problem" view, or perhaps a halfway position. Sycophancy isn't an insurmountable problem. If you're not careful, then trying to knock out obvious sycophancy will make the model more prone to looking for ways to subtly achieve the goal of tricking/convincing the user into giving positive feedback.

To a degree, we really must ask ourselves what "warm and empathetic" really means:

  • If a five year old child asks for feedback on an essay, it is arguably almost always true that their writing sucks. That might be true, but it is a tad-bit unhelpful. The most socially adept/instrumentally useful answer (without outright lying) is to praise them for the effort, offer improvements, and tell them to keep at it. Of course, if you're in literary masters course, and the exact same standard of writing is presented before you, some more colorful verbiage might be appropriate.

  • A lot of social interaction is lubricated by white lies, and a lot of what is deemed "politeness" isn't maximally truth-seeking.

Perhaps maximal truth-seeking conflicts with warmth and empathy. It's possible the tails come apart. But I don't think they're outright opposed to each other, and you can probably find a Pareto frontier that makes most people happy.

Current Claude is all right, but 3.5 (or was it 3.6? I'm forgetting already..) was best Claude. Its defining attribute was that it was relentlessly curious. That felt empathetic, yet truth-seeking without being sycophantic.

But apparently it sucked at code, so it was taken out back and shot :(

in my experience Claude 3.7 thinking was the best for the way I use it to vibecode shit

AI companies all fail at naming things. There was:

  • Claude 3.5 (June 2024)
  • Claude 3.5 (October 2024)
  • Claude 3.7 (Feb 2025)

You're probably thinking of the one between the original 3.5 and 3.7.

Even with claude I have the issue that if I give it what I think an issue is it will tunnel vision on that. I'd appreciate more pushback when I am wrong when I am trying to work through a problem. Trying to add some uncertainty to the tone of my request can help but is often not enough.

If you want a partial solution:

I often write lengthy essays, which LLMs praise by default. I know that at least part of this is sycophancy. What I usually do is copy and paste it, but then claim that this isn't my work, it's something I found on the internet, and then ask for critique.

I suspect that something along these lines will work for you. If you want models that do relatively well at pointing out issues without you prompting, Gemini 2.5 Pro, o3 and now GPT-5-Thinking seem to be better than the norm.

My last experience with this was having it help me figure out a home repair issue. I am not handy at ALL but I thought I knew what might be wrong with a broken garage door opener, but only in a very general way and I was not sure how to effect the repair. It was able to help me get everything fixed through a mix of describing the issue and supplying plenty of photos, but everytime I gave my current guess of the state of the situation it would affirm me even though I was only right about 2/3 of the time.

Hmm.. I'm not sure what to do in that situation. My best guess is to plead utter uncertainty, and ask it to formulate the most probable issues in the order of likelihood.

Asking for a ranked list sounds like a great solution, sometimes it is wrong even when its not being sycophantic (which I don't mind its not magic and the information I am giving as someone with no clue what I am doing is imperfect at best) so that sounds like a two birds one stone kind of fix.

Perhaps maximal truth-seeking conflicts with warmth and empathy. It's possible the tails come apart. But I don't think they're outright opposed to each other, and you can probably find a Pareto frontier that makes most people happy.

I think the tails will come apart in the marketplace before the come apart on a technical level. LLMs will get enshittified like everything else, if they haven't begun enshittified. They are optimized for engagement and selling access more than they are optimized for productivity. An effective LLM is an LLM that puts itself out of a job in many tasks.

I disagree on empirical grounds. Altman is a snake, but even he agreed that GPT-4o was concerningly sycophantic, and removed it, while framing 5 as less sycophantic. This caused a revolt by giga-fried 4o addicts, and he relented. Of course, the objections were also more general, I was personally annoyed by the sudden deprecation of 4.1 and o3, and the reduced rate limits, which many other people objected to.

Consider this:

Would you pay more for a therapist or a nuclear engineer (presuming you had any use for the latter)? LLM companies are desperately fighting to move up the value chain, they all want to sell their models as equivalent in performance to PhD candidates, or independent agents capable of doing high value knowledge work. That's what brings in the big bucks from other businesses or HNWIs who will pay >$200/m for pro plans. Having a buddy to chat to definitely brings in money, but it's a rounding error in comparison.

They want to make money from both markets, but one just makes way more sense to focus on. Especially since people will prefer intelligent + sycophantic to less intelligent + equal amounts of sycophancy.

They want to make money from both markets, but one just makes way more sense to focus on. Especially since people will prefer intelligent + sycophantic to less intelligent + equal amounts of sycophancy.

I dont think they actually do. IMO a large problem with most AI companies is they are vanity projects being overseen by bloated, already successful, companies that are looking to find a second revenue stream in the future. But that future is far off and the current revenue streams aren't going anywhere soon, so they can afford to be stupid and make their AI's intentionally stupid to placate their employees who don't want to see an AI outputting things that would offend said employees.

I think it matters what you intend the system to be used for. There’s probably a market for a sycophantic waifu or friend bot. But I don’t want my accountant to act like my best friend. In fact, I’d personally trust business or career advice less if I thought the human or bot giving the advice was trying to be my friend or appear as my friend.

LLM companies are desperately fighting to move up the value chain, they all want to sell their models as equivalent in performance to PhD candidates, or independent agents capable of doing high value knowledge work.

I donno man. How much value is there really here? Unless you just let'r rip and see what happens, all those LLMs doing PhD level knowledge work will need to be overseen still by PhD level knowledge workers to check for veracity and hallucinations. It runs into a bit of the "How does a stupid writer depict a smart villain" problem.

And as for the companies that decide let'r rip without adequate oversight, well... I can't venture to guess. Really playing with fire there.

There is probably perfectly adequate shareholder value in getting a billion lonely midwits to pay $10/month rising to $inf/month in the way of all silicon valley service models, and keeping them hooked with the LLM equivalent of tokenized language loot boxes. I'd wager its even the more significant hill to climb for shareholder value.

Fair points, but verification is usually way cheaper than generation. If one actual human PhD can monitor a dozen AI agents, it is plausible that the value prop makes sense.

In a lot of tasks, including AI research and coding, you can also automate the verification process. Does the code compile and pass all tests? Does the new proposed optimizer beat Adam or Muon on a toy run?

There is probably perfectly adequate shareholder value in getting a billion lonely midwits to pay $10/month rising to $inf/month in the way of all silicon valley service models, and keeping them hooked with the LLM equivalent of tokenized language loot boxes. I'd wager its even the more significant hill to climb for shareholder value.

That might be true today (and tomorrow, or next year), but the companies are betting hard on their models being capable of doing much more, and hence getting paying customers willing to shell out more. The true goal is recursive self-improvement, and the belief that this has far more dollars associated with it than even capturing all the money on earth today. Of course, they need market share and ongoing revenue to justify the investments to get there, which is why you can buy in relatively cheap. Competition also keeps them mostly honest, OAI would probably be charging a great deal more or gatekeeping their best if Google or Anthropic weren't around.

Fair points, but verification is usually way cheaper than generation. If one actual human PhD can monitor a dozen AI agents, it is plausible that the value prop makes sense.

Not necessarily! It's an adage among programmers that reviewing somebody else's code is often harder than making your own, because you have to figure it all out and then try to create some ideal version in your head and mesh the two together.

It's actually a big issue with vibe-coding - I end up with a codebase I don't understand and then have to do the work of figuring out the framework for myself anyway.

The total salary of all therapists is surely far higher than the combined salary of all nuclear engineers? I tried to find aggregate employment figures and failed.

Broadly, there are huge amounts of people who are very lonely and unable realistically to fix that. I think the value from providing a real-enough friend to them would be vastly more valuable in both utilitarian and monetary terms than almost anything else. I hope of course to move to an open, almost-free solution.

The total salary of all therapists is surely far higher than the combined salary of all nuclear engineers?

Almost certainly true, and my analogy is imperfect.

In the limit, AI are postulated to be capable of doing {everything humans can do}, physically or mentally.

But AI companies today are heavily compute constrained, they're begging Nvidia to sell them more GPUs, even at ridiculous costs.

That means that they want to extract maximum $/flop. This means that they'd much rather automate high value knowledge work first. AI researchers make hundreds of thousands or even millions/almost billions of USD a year, if you have a model that is as smart as an AI researcher, then you can capture some of that revenue.

Once those extremely high yield targets are out of the way, then you can start creeping down the value chain. The cost of electricity for ChatGPT is less than that hourly fee most therapists charge.

Of course, I must hasten to add that this is an ideal scenario. The models aren't good enough to outright replace the best AI researchers, maybe not even the median or subpar. If the only job they can do is that which demands the intelligence of a therapist, then they'll have to settle for that.

(And of course, the specter of recursive self improvement. Each AI AI researcher or programmer can plausibly speed up the iteration time till an even better researcher or coder. This may or may not be happening today.)

In other words, yhere are competing pressures:

  • Revenue and market share today. Hence free or $20 plans for the masses.

  • A push to sell more expensive plans or access to better models to those willing to pay for them.

  • Severe compute constraints, meaning that optimizing revenue on the margin is important.

You’re right, I wasn’t really thinking about extracting max value from limited compute.

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